screaming and yelling

Recently my boyfriend and i moved in together. i now get to over hear the phone conversations with his ex wife and his mother. when they make him mad he yells screams and call them names or hangs up on them (thats what i would rather him do, and at times he has punched the wall or threw the phone. i'm not stupid i see the anger. is that a definete guarentee that will be me in a few months or years or is it possible that his situations will go away and we will stay happy together??? tough love

[margypops]

It is not good that he takes this anger out of you or your home , he should not be talking to his ex wife, and if his mother is upsetting him to the point of yelling like that they should take a break till they have cleared it up. Anger can escallate,so have talk with him, tell him not to answer the phone or call her.If he has to ..tell him you will not tolerate his tantrum afterwards,if he cares for you he will see it your way.Good Luck

[je1v]

thank you. so far this has worked so hopefully things will continue silenced.

[margypops]

Good keep it up, do not tolerate it if he starts it again, be firm and consistant in letting him know if he continues he does so without you, if he cares he will not do it...