who is at fault!

i have a 18 month old daughter with a man who i love but have had many problems with i have had to call the police 3 prior times for his anger out bursts would not allow me to leave our house with my daughter and tried to grab her from me , he has came to my parents screaming and yelling in front of my daughter threatening to kill my  dad! then today i came home and he has broken in to my hoome and destroyed the place gathering his thing that were left there he pushed me out of the way and broke doors and trashed my place ! me in anger kicked the tv that was ours but he was trying to take and broke it i went down to my car and he threw the 42 inch tv on to my windsheild smashing it while i and my daughter and cousin where in the car ! but i feel soo guilty !! he is some one who is awesome half the time then the other he is a monster and throws things !!

[margypops]

Your child needs protection, it sounds as if you should contact someone ,the authorities and get help and protection ,how can anyone who behaves like this be 'awesome?  You should be making sure your child is okay and what you have described here does NOT sound okay .I gather you are not living with him so seek an order form the courts .Stay away from him and call the Police if he comes near you or your family, ask your parents to do the same .