Anxiety on STDs

[darrenwei]

8th oct I had a protector sex and unprotected oral sex with a sex worker(less than a minute for oral). On 13th oct, I vomitted my food all out in the wee hours and my appetite drop alot, I lost over 6kg till today.  
During this 3 weeks, I had slight diarrhoea almost once everyday, I went to see 3 different family doctors and 3 doctors said is  gastric flu.  
I did notice under my foreskin there is something not there shown up.. a few white dots in a roll  
I went to see another different doctor regarding my exposure and he check my penis and told me through his experience doesn't look like herpes. 
There was 3  times I got slight stomachache I use my tummy strength  to push and urine and stools out after my urine finish, some transparent discharge out from my tip of my penis which looks like semen.( that only happen 3 times till today, it looks like semens to me but I am worried.when I urine, can feel hot when the urine flows out,no urinate irritation or burning sensation. I not sure if is STDs. Plus on my surrounding on hairy place itch and sometimes on the balls.. pls need some advice 
I had slip disc on my  lower back so I not sure if is it my old injuries or because of herpes causing the pain.  
lower back is feeling tied up and causes nerves pull to both my calf. 

What have I done since the last exposure: 
8 oct protected sex & unprotected oral 
22 oct HIV rapid test(negative) 
29th oct swaptest for Herpes(undetectable) 
5 nov blood test and urine test for Syphilis.(no herpes test) all fine for my blood and urine test. 

I am now anxiety and my mind keeps on thinking. 
for the last few days when I busy I wont have anything feel or uneasy.. 
just want to check if is it anxiety causes all this symptoms. 
what are the changes getting STDs 

Regret and Worried might pass to my wife 

Add on.. 
These 2 days inside my mouth the gums bleed ... I am just worried... pls help

Inside my mouth, got some white spot, no idea what is it.. 
Crack and dry lips 
Drink lot of water still having dry lips

Abit of uncomfortable throat issue 
Abit of running nose 
But this only last 3-4days after I took some medication, my throat issue is gone and still have slight running nose


Just to check if Anxiety will cause all these symptoms??
I will go for full check soon and just wan to ask if these symptoms is also cause by ANXIETY...
PLS ADVICE

[mariabianca]

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child

[darrenwei]

Yes I am really regret on what I have done..
I am now very paranoid and Anxiety about the things that happening on me...
I know my mistake and hope that nothing turns out to be that(STDs)
Pls advice me more to ease my tension.
Is it me myself that cause me to feel that way..
I really not sure if is the virus or me which scare out of me
pls advice me... I am really lost and scared. I really regret the things I have done...... pls

[ROSYouralright]

Anxiety can cause you to be very physically sick... The best advice I can give is to make sure you are protected at all times and quit putting yourself in situations that you know will cause you stress and anxiety