Dont know how to handle this!

[magen7984]

Hi everyone, i dont know what to do! My best friend and i have our own business for about 3 years now. And her father swears he is the king of the world and is right about everything. He keeps telling her our business is going to fail and she needs to get out ETC...... He is a total ass! (pardon my language) It makes me feel worhtless as well as her. I think our business is going great. I just feel like calling him up and cussing him out. He makes me sooo stressed he says i depend on her a lot witch i admitt everyone with anxiety has a "safe person" and i do depend on her somewhat but not 100% he just makes me feel like **** and i dont know what to do about it. Everyone makes me feel bad becasue i no longer drive because of my anxiety and says stuff about it makes me feel like ****. I pay for gas expenses but its not good enough i just dont know what to do. And i am feeling a little depresed right now. Should i confront him or let it be?

[Raine9]

Don't confront him.  Probably make matters worse.  If you and your friend are happy about your business and it's doing well,  who cares what he thinks or says.  The best way to deal with people like that is to ignore them.

[tanns]

My in-laws drive me CRAZY!!!  So I write a letter then tear it up.  It works wonders for me!!

[magen7984]

thanks guys i feel better today. I acually screamed into my pillow lol it helped but thanks for telling me not to yell at him i probley would have