Okay, don't mean to offend anyone, but this is the best way to describe it. A friend of mine was very anxious about what others thought of her and she has not had that anxiety or nervousness lately. I asked her how/why she is not anxious (because she is going through a divorce) and she said "because I finally just said 'F*** it'" She said she decided that she doesn't care what people think anymore, she only cares about what makes her happy and what takes care of her. I know it's not the nicest way to put things, but sometimes, there is no better way. I get tired of sugar coating.
So it's Friday people! F*** it! Enjoy your weekend.