Help with my 9 yr old daughter with separation anxiety unresolved as a toddler. Possible ADHD as well-

My daughter is in 4 th grade and still struggling with separation anxiety, I have chronic pain from a back injury/condition- which I know plays a role in SAD, but this year she has already missed too many days of school(which causes her to get more behind - mostly in math, which she is struggling so much and has trouble focusing on it all together)She also has trouble with anger- she even admits it- she says she feels rage,and can't control it. Im so worried- anyone????

[mammo]

Please talk to her pediatrician about getting her into therapy to determine where all of this is coming from.  You need to nip this in the bud now so she can overcome this before it takes over her life.  Talk to someone at her school about getting some extra help for her with math.  I hope this helps, I know it's so difficult when we see our child hurting.  Best wishes.