This forum is not for discussing HIV risk but is for anxiety. We hope you seek treatment for your anxiety. We are closing this discussion as there is nothing more to add than what our members have already stated.
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I was standing on the edge of cliff and I thank you guys for being there for me.I have nothing left but to pray and hope that everything will turn out to be okay.
I agree that you need to keep your focus squarely on treating anxiety. This is the answer to bringing light back to your life. A psychiatrist, talk therapy and medication could make the world of difference for you and I strongly urge you to seek this kind of impactful help. good luck
This will probably be moved to the HIV forum, but your problem isn't really HIV, is it? It's you letting this one incident, after which you've done all you can do to make sure your health is fine by getting tested (and it's a bit confusing what you said, about the condom breaking because if it was on her leg, well, that's not where it goes if you're in the right place if you get my drift, so I am a bit confused) yet you're letting this ruin your life. It's one thing to learn from doing something stupid or that you consider to have been wrong, it's quite another to let it ruin your entire life. You've given up everything you love because you goofed. That's your problem, and it's probably not new, it's probably been a way you've been thinking for awhile that's broken out. I'd suggest a good psychologist who can help you change the way you react to things and the dire tracks your life takes under stress. I wish you luck.