about 6 weeks ago as I was on vacation in dubai went to massage club , ( big mistake I will never do it again ) , and I got a massage without oil . , she tooke off my underwear and massage my anal , at the end I received a hand job , I am worry about HIV infection , but the doctors say it is imposible to be infected through this way , but I cant trust them , becoz now im in 7st week after incident and I lost some weight (5 kg) , Im so anxity , I have swollen lymph nodes , I had a Diarrhea ( for two days) , Sore throat in this morning , and some where in my skin is red ... all of them are HIV symptom
Im really scarde and I had sleepless nights in these weeks , and googling alot about hiv and hiv symptom and fond all of them in my body , but yet they say it is imposible I got hiv !!! I ignore this issue, I didnt have sex with my girlfriend for 6 weeks ..
someone in hiv forume said me " There is nothing further to say, except seek professional mental help for you nonacceptance of a no risk issue."
is there any one who can help me ?
If you are that worried go have a hiv test. I sense extreme guilt here. Do you feel really quilty about going to the club? Im not a doctor but your symtoms could come from many things. The swollen nodes maybe from your constant feeling them, the dirrareah from some bad water or food and you may just have a common cold as it is the flu season. Dont diagnose yourself or youll make yourself checking your body nonstop.
When a man goes to a club like you did, and leaves, they generally feel nice and relaxed. How did you feel a few hours after you left the club? Was money an issue?
thankyou for your answer , I didnt think it is a sex club and I think it is a professional massage club befor I went there , but after she started to massage sudenly she took my underwear off and started handjob !!! realy I dont know why as accepted !! the mony is not important ,, I cant explain it for my gf !!! she will be so sad !! and afew days ago as I was worry about hiv I called the clube inorder to ask them send theri license number !! but they didnt answer and the number dosent work !!! Im so scerd about what happend !!! now Im sure it wasnt a real massage club and it was a sex club !!! mybe they infected me Deliberately ,,, and in my country I have to wait for the test 3 months and its to long for me !!! I agree with you , I constantly feeling lymph nodes ... I dont know what should I do
I worked in Dubai and aware of your culture. Why would they deliberately infect you? They would not. Dubai is a God conscious country. I think what has happened is that you were caught off guard about the club and think they are bad people. These people are ordinary working people trying to get by. They are not evil people and the massuse was trying to make it a pleasent experience so you would come back again. These people are the same as everyone else. I think your judging them so just relax and put this behind you. No way you were infected
thank you Life , I be relax as came in this community , and I can remember her voice she told me ' I hope to see you next time " as I was leaving massage parlour , you are right , and some days after that I called them and their manager told me the goverment in dubai dosent permit them work without health license , but I dont now why last week they didnt answer their phone , and it improve my anxeity !!!
and I dont leave in dubai and I dont know what may occure for their club , and why it is close !!
any way I'll try move it on ,, and thank you very much for your help .
Maybe they were closed when you called or no girls came into work that day. Try to remember this as a good time and the nice girl who made you comfortable. Nice pleasant experiences are very hard to come by these days.
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