sexual health

[healingdaye]

my husband is usually a kind and loving person.  but after we have sex he changes.  his attitude is cold and distant.  could this be a medical problem like hormonal.

[Paxiled]

Men and women react differently to orgasm, especially strong ones.  And men usually have strong ones, whereas women have all kinds -- often in a very short time.  It leaves men flowing with the body's natural opiate-like substances, and makes them very tired for a while.  Spent.  Whereas a woman will often get the opposite because testosterone levels are very high upon orgasm, and will have tons of energy and want to go vacuum the house or take a jog.  The truth is, men and women are different species.  

[Ziggy88]

I am not a doctor, but my husband seems to get like this also.  To me it, he just seems tired and drained like he let everything out and doesn't have anything else to give.