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The father of the baby lefty me... well cheated on me twice the first time I forgave him and the second time he cheated he left me to be with her knowing I'm pregnant with his child. I would of never expected this from him. We were together for a year and a month. Will he ever come around and still wanna be with me and be there fir the baby?

[AnnieBrooke]

He might be a father to the baby, especially since he's going to be paying child support (you and your legal advisor have seen to this, right?) but it doesn't sound like he is ever going to want to be with you any more.  I am very sorry, but plan for that.   Do your work for child support and get your life together, he's not the man you need; he's a cheater.

[cmonster1991]

Well the thing is he wanted me pregnant. I did not. I was not ready. And he would try and get me pregnant. And I knew he was so I would stop giving him sex and even talked to him when we were together. And whenb I did give him sex I told him he had to pull out. He never liked wearing condoms. He wanted me pregnant

[AnnieBrooke]

So, you're saying he's a controlling, uncaring, selfish cheater.  Is that somehow making things better?  Get real, he's a pig.  So he wanted you pregnant, it was just a control thing so he could brag to his buddies about his virility and his ability to argue down a woman.  What a jerk.  

[cmonster1991]

I think that was it! But I don't see why he just left me...

[AnnieBrooke]

If you prefer to mourn over the loss of a controlling, uncaring, selfish cheater, go right ahead.  While you are mourning, speak to your attorney about child support.

[heartfluttersflyawayplz]

from what am seeing your so much better off with out him, if hes like that than he will keep putting you threw it and why would you want to keep going throught the pain. plus its not just you anymore , your bring a life into this world do you wont him/her to go threw this with you. not fair to the little one. i say get child support and move on with your life, enjoty that sweet baby and be the best mom you can be so that little one will have a great start in life, because without that, its a sad world and hard to make it. God Bless you .

[cmonster1991]

I actually don't think I wanna get him for child support. I want him to have nothing to do with the baby. And have no rights to this baby. In my eyes all he is, is ****! And will amount to nothing. I don't think he is even ready to be a dad! I can do it with out him. And don't want nothing from him. I'm done!

[cmonster1991]

I will be a good mother:) I'm hoping for a boy so we can watch foot ball together! :D and even if its a girl I guess I still can with her. Lol

[heartfluttersflyawayplz]

i know it will be very hard to raise a child without its dad but if hes like you say you and child will be better off. plus your so young you will one day fall in love again and he will help you raise this child, i remarried when i was 23 with a 2 year old and 13 month old, he has been a awesome dad to my ( our) boys.

so hang in there girl you can do it for you and your sweet baby on the way.

[cmonster1991]

Thank you! :) and found out it's a girl! Lol I really wanted a boy but I girl is exciting. :)

[heartfluttersflyawayplz]

Congrats, little girls are sweet and so much fun to shop for, now you can have a little me and ya will be best of friends. keep in touch

[heartfluttersflyawayplz]

when i say little me i mean a little you lol it looks like am saying a little me about me but i not lol, you get it right