Member Comments are provided by individuals and reflect their personal opinions only. Under NO circumstances should you act on any advice or opinion posted in this forum.  ALWAYS check with your personal physician before taking any action regarding your health! MedHelp International and our partners, sponsors and affiliates have no obligation to monitor any comments posted on this site, or the content and/or accuracy of such exchanges. MedHelp International does not endorse the views of any user.
 | 

I have Asburger's, after 29 years I found a "fix"

by Beldan4, May 16, 2009 04:04PM
Well this is for questions, I guess mine is more of a comment, mostly cuase I see all sorts of people here looking for help or hope. I'm 30 years old, and have asburgers (which sadly wasn't digonised for a LONG time), I am also digonised with ADD, OCD, and Depression (although some of things things might not apply anymore).

Anyway (gotta keep reminding myself to stay on topic) about a year and a half ago I was introduced by my parents to somthing called Neurofeedback, and since then ive made Dramatic improvments. Mostly in the ADD, and OCD, but also in the depression. Growing up my most favorite Phrase was "i don't care", now i go months without uttering the phrase at all. Also social it has helped (sort of) learning social behavior is supposed to happen at a certain age ive learned, well im long past that. I defeinetly feel I have a real capacity to improve in this area now, but im past the optimal time for when I should have learned it. Still its amazing how great it still feels to FEEL the way im supposed to. Also one of the best parts I think about this is that im totaly off all my meds, I can live my life without the prepeual fear of "freaking out" or "shutting down". My mind is no longer a total battlefield for basic stability.

Neurofeedback is like biofeedback only it works with your head instead of the rest of your body. In short each area of the head has diffrent "jobs" that its best at. Your head is tested for the electrical and wave comuication between the various points on the head. Then mild stiumlation is applyed to each area(s) in order to correct the "problem" area's. Its like getting your own perfect perscritption, a drug that will give you all of the benifit without any of the side effects. The brain natrualy wants to get better, and as time progresses it learns to HOLD the new patters, so this isn't a life long thing. For those that might have asburgers and be scared of "loseing" parts of themself I can gureentee this doesn't happen I still think like someone with Asburgers but I now have a greater capacity to relate to things that I stood around going ?hunh? too.

The bad news. This is new, the medical comuinty doesn't reoncinse it, there's no limits on the tecnoigly (though most honest supplyers won't sell to everyone off the street) there's also no limits on the education needed to operate it either, so you need to be sure you find someone who absoulutly knows what their doing, (which is rare the guy i see in Spokane, WA is the only guy in short of any other major city that practices it). Worse, since its new, and its hard to test (you can't placebo effects like this, people become attuned and KNOW when its working or not) insurance companys won't cover it directly. Lastly I was born "broken" I am / was totaly oblivious to what "normal" was, i lived pepeutaly with a stressed out brain. Good treatment is slow treatment (at least for people that have developed into adulthood, you can probabaly get away with a lot more with kids) rush too fast and you as a person won't be able to keep up with the improvments your brain will make (I freaked out and back slided a number of times) doesn't feel nice to have your "comfort zone" unexpectedly moved and you don't know where it went. People that started out good then had disruptions (head injury, stroke, chemical depenancy (alcholol)) tend to make more rapid recoverys becuase both they and their brain despreatly want to return to "normalacy".

www.neurotherapynw.com is the website of the guy I see, he's really well learned and met some of the core developers of the thearpy so he should be able to refer you to someone who knows what their doing in your area if your intrested.


Member Comments (5)

by tresequus, Jun 03, 2009 08:53AM
To: beldan4
Wow, what a post. My daughter has AS, and I found your post fascinating. Thanks for sharing and congrats on your drive and ability to overcome !

by Polkad0t, Jul 03, 2009 04:10PM
To: Beldan4
I think it's wonderful you have found a way to enrich your life and I wish you the very best of luck in the future; your post certainly made a great read. The only bit I didn't care for was when you said you felt you finally felt how you were supposed to feel, just not sure if anyone is supposed to feel or be a particular way, but I think I get what you mean.

by auntjo123, Oct 23, 2009 01:11AM
To: anyone
my niece we suspect has AS. she is 30 years old and has left the family leaving a letter stating that she has disolved any relationship with her entire family. This has left us all devestated, especially her parents. She was always envolved with projects, writing, art, extensive reading, but didn't play much like other children She was always focused intently on accomplishments. She would always ask the most unusual questions like She was interviewing you for an article to write. Sometimes the questions were downright embarasing but she didn't think they were. She once asked me what did I think my husband saw in me? Once she said I was her favorite Aunt so I don't think She was being sarcastic. She was about 15 at the time. She excelled in school all through to collage making all of us proud. She never liked to be hugged or touched. Only as She became a young adult would She let you give her a little hug but without touching much. You had to do this hug quickly or She would frown and wiggle out of it. Her parents found out where she moved to and went to discuss this drama with her. She was very evasive and the second time they went over to see her she didn't say ONE WORD! .I am writting to anyone who can give me some insight if possible and if this behaviour is condusive to someone with AS.

by Mozartcowgirl, Nov 18, 2009 11:49PM
I get your post.. but was a bit hard to filter. Not sure.. but.. well.. nevermind. Then again.. I have aspergers.. I am the proverbial "  Instructor"

Not sure if its benefit is for all those with aspergers, however, would be willing to give it a shot. Maybe everyone should try it.. Aspergers or not.  I have to be honest.. and where would I be today if I was not honest.. but.. I embrace my aspergers.

The only normal people are the ones you dont know very well.

Einstein's brain.. was stressed.. where .. Oh brother where.. would we be without those kinds of thoughts that come from a stressed brain.

Then again.. peace.. is nice. When you can get it.  Nice post.. many different sides.

Then again.. Caeser never saw Brutus coming for the Olive branch was in the way.

by Mozartcowgirl, Nov 21, 2009 08:24PM
To: Myself
Did I actually not spell Ceasar correctly? whoa. Im slipping..lol
Post Comment
To
Comment
Post Comment
Recent Activity
redheadaussie Is planting corn, tomatoes, broccoli, pumpkins, and ...
Dazon50 Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of...
Lonelymom commented on I HATE CHRISTMAS I HA...
17 hrs ago
CrzyBeautiful1 commented on Hospital stay
18 hrs ago
CrzyBeautiful1 commented on SO EXCITED :)
18 hrs ago
MrsMacDugle commented on depression kicking bu...
18 hrs ago
innerchild09 commented on Death
18 hrs ago
MrsMacDugle commented on WAR ZONE ON RED ALERT...
18 hrs ago
RSS Expert Activity
Sad cases of Animal Cruelty
Dec 18 by Thomas Dock, Vet. Technician
Cost and Availablity of Medical Car...
Dec 17 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS
Behavior Medications for our Pets -... 
Dec 17 by Jim Humphries, B.S., D.V.M.
Community Members