What's wrong with "accidents"?

Ive Asperger and have had accidents (now and then) with peeing or pooping the pants all the life (And dont feel any problem with it, since I can just go and change to some new when possible). I wonder why it is so wrong to have it. I mean, I noticed people sometimes goes away and so or commenting it if it happens , but people can also react similar if I say something or do something in a way they dont say they like. So why is such accidents worst than other behaviours which of some unknown reasons can cause irritations?

[nanal575]

I suppose people react negatively to these " accidents"........because it's what's expected from a very young toddler.........not an adult. I have a spinal cord injury........and occasionally have " accidents " ! Frankly.......they mortify me......I've never been in public when I've had them.......thank God! I think it brings me into feelings of shame.......the same way it would if I were that toddler.......instead of a 66 year old woman. You cannot expect the able bodied world to understand why these things happen to some people........they just don't......and won't. Expecting them too is expecting too much. Just try to keep it as private as possible. Then, it's just you having to deal with it.........just ......you ! Good luck..........peace and love.......Norma

[loremaster8953]

Well, your looking at this the wrong way. The point is not the reaction you get out of people. The point is that shitting in your pants is unsanitary. The bacteria from the **** can cause rashes, and it would be more effective if your urine was in the toilet so you wouldn't have to change.
You only include one variable and that is the reaction from people. This is false, because reactions from people don't matter, but the other variables mentioned do.