A good friend of mine, a 55 year old man, holds down a job in computers - however, I doubt he will continue that work for long, as he refuses to bathe and of course has terrible body odor.
I had occassion to use his home bathroom unexpectedly recently and discovered the horror of what must be 'feces smearing'. The walls, cupboards, sink, toilet, etc. were all smeared with feces - some had obviously been there for a very long time.
This man is kind,
gentleGentle laxative, giving, clever, but has now begun to retreat from social contact with anyone. His mother and I are greatly worried about him as he becomes more reclusive. He has thwarted all of my attempts to stay in touch.
Do these actions sound like they could be a part of an
autismAutism
Autism - resources-related illness? I am hoping to find a physiological or
psychologicalChild neglect and psychological abuse 'diagnosis' in order to reassure his elderly mother that there may be a way to get him some help. Even if we cannot convince him to get treatment, perhaps her mind would be eased to know that it isn't a character flaw or anything in his upbringing that has created his issues.
I do appreciate any feedback you may provide here.