Im not sure

Ive been diagnosed at the age of ten having asperges im now 14 and I don't understand why I have it. I can make eye contact comfertabley, I don't like routines, Im good at reading emotions just very sensitive. I don't know but im not sure if most aspergic people are emo's or goths which I would class myself as. I think that my aspergic related symptoms are due to immaturity not the disorder, and the need to be different from everyone no matter what. I have sensory defects like high hearing and eye sensitivity and the sun hurts my skin. Im not sure and id really liked to know if im apergic or not because I believe its due to other disorders mental wise like bipolar, Dissocrative Identity disorder, anxiety, schitzophrenia, histrionoc disorder etc.. Im very quiet most of the time, I love to help people who are feeling hurt and emotional aswell.