My son was diagnosed with autism. He is a happy, well adjusted, highly functioning 7 year old. My concern, though, stems from his refusal to do BMs in the potty. He is potty trained for #1, wears underwear during the day and has very little issue. He has NEVER done a BM in the toilet, adamantly refuses and says he is scared. He waits until he has his Overnight diaper on, then he will go. It is hard with the autism - hindsight is we should have gone after this more aggressively but we were sensitive to his challenges. Now we are in a rut - he is older and more determined and I am at wits end on what to do. Bribery, having his brother tell him it is not scary, etc, etc have not worked. I cannot decide if he is truly scared, or just in a comfortable habit that he refuses to give up. Any suggestions on how to address this?