is aspergers what my son has?

hi, i dont know where this should be posted as i dont really know much right now! my son is 8 since being a toddler when my son got mad he hit his head on floors the fireplace etc and screamed since hes become older hes getting more vocal eg shouting he hates us wants to kill us and that we hate him he also kits and kicks out hes a very strong boy, he gets mad and throw things even chairs big items, but he hits himslf and digs his nails in his legs, i couldgo on for ever to be honest. he will not let things drop either eg his younger sister whos 3 sometimes is lazy and will eat with her mouth open so he shouts at her but wont drop it even after us (parents) stepping in, he hates anyone going near his belongings but he thinks he can play with what he likes. but when hes not mad hes great hes always looking out for his youngest brother whos 2 and never gets anoyed with him, he is also so bright hes getting great marks at school and loves learning. he seems to get mad if his routine changes are if things dont go his way. any advicee more than welcome, many thanks

[2ofeach]

please anyone with any ideas? :O(

[Majikat]

Hmmmm maybe he just has some anger issues.... Have you talked to a dr about it? Someone with aspergers would be socialy awkward and would prob have worse issues other than not wanting others to touch toys....

I would talk to his dr about it tho to see what they think....