CYCLE BUDDIES *JULY 2010 CHOO CHOO

[bernie40]

Hi ladies, well I'm not sure how well this list has been put together lol, if I've got anyones dates wrong or missed anyone off then i apologise most profusely!

First of all though I want to wish Lori all the best and let her know that we are all here for her.  ((((hugs)))

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Ok, we've got some to throw off the train :D  CONGRATULATIONS to:

princessjam/Jamie - 03/12/2011
anxiouslywaiting/Tausha - 02/07/2011
andreasmom - 03/10/2011
GBen - 02/21/2011
hudsy - 02/14/2011
raelou - BFP 12 May

Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months to you all and please drop us some SSBD once in a while :D

For those of us still on the train this month:

treatgirl/Chelle -        5dpo
12121980/Joy -       10dpo
preciouspg -            10dpo
northernsunshine -  12dpo
queenspade -            4dpo

jenni1187 -               CD3
wannababy -            CD14
Bernie40/Helen -      CD17

Somewhere inbetween:

megs2girls7
texasangel
wishing628
1975sam

Lots of SUPER STICKY BABY DUST to everyone and once again apologies if I've missed anyone off.

Helen

[bernie40]

Jenni I'm so sorry it wasn't a BFP hon, perhaps it was a faulty test :(  I've done the new list for us and started a new thread.  xx

[Jenni1187]

I just wanted to give everyone an update. Thank you sooo much for the prayers and support but I'm pretty sure it was a false alarm. I took another test the following morning and it was negative, the morning after that was negative also. So I've stopped testing and am just waiting for AF (which is due today or tomorrow). I was only 9dpo when I got the "positive" so I really was expecting to see a bfn and didn't pay much attention to the time. It says only to wait ten minutes but it must have been more than ten minutes because I'm guessing it was an evap line. Or possibly a faulty test but I hear that's pretty rare. It couldn't have been more than a couple minutes after the ten-minute mark, so it was a FAST evap line. And it wasn't the "if I twist it this way and the light hits it just right, you can kind of see a line" there was really a line lol. But I just wanted to apologize for jumping the gun and thank everyone for the support! Sending tons and tons of ssbd in all directions!!!

[smr08]

Hi Girls! Sorry I haven't been around, i've been trying to keep up on all the post but I admit, I fell a bit behind :( Hope your all doing well and close to heading to the other side!!

Chelle_ i'm so sorry:(  Glad to hear that you have such a wonderful Dr thats willing to help you get some answers. xoxo

Northern- maybe trying on your own will get you the results you soooooo deserve. Sending you a big hug and super positive vibes}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Jenni- I have it all crossed for youXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX sending you tons of prayer!

Helen- thanks for taking time out of your busy life to keep this list going, your a doll! xoxo

[bernie40]

Hi ladies, hope everyone is doing ok.  I've got the list ready on paper and will be posting it on here tomorrow evening.  :D

[treatgirl]

Prayin for you Jenni.. :-D  SSBD to you!

[bernie40]

ooh Jenni, definitely keeping everything crossed for you, a line is a line as they say :D  I'll hold off a few more days before doing the list (not that I need an excuse, lol) xoxoxoxoxo

[Jenni1187]

I think I just got a bfp... it's faint, but there. I'm testing again in the morning but thought I would share my maybe news. I'm not getting my hopes up yet but if I am I could really use some prayer for a healthy in-utero baby that will stick around for nine months. I'm absolutely terrified right now of the possibility of another heartbreak. But trying to stay calm and indifferent about it until I test tomorrow, and then I'll take it from there. Thank you in advance for anyone willing to pray for me or keep me in your thoughts. xoxo

[bernie40]

treatgirl - oh hun I'm so glad you have a good and nice Dr, it makes me so mad when we are told we have to go through the heartache 3 times before tests will be done, fingers crossed he can help you out.

northern - i'm so sorry, i shall keep my fingers crossed for you.

I'm just starting my tww!  Major ovulation pains today and according to an ovulation calendar I went on we've bd'd on all the right days :D  also  feeling really positive for the first time in a long time.

So sorry i haven't done the new list yet but I will do my best to get it sorted in the next few days - its summer break for the kids at the mo and I seem to be here there and everywhere acting as a taxi service, lol.

Really hope everyone is ok and praying hard for us all xx

[treatgirl]

Hey everyone,

Well I went and had my HcG done again yesterday and it was down to normal.  So we talked to our Dr. and he said on my next cycle on day 3 or 4  he wants me to come in and get blood drawn and he is going to start getting some test run to see if anything shows up as to why this might be happening to me.  I have such a nice Dr.  He said you know they usually say don't start testing till the thrid time something happens, but he said there is no rule of that so we are going to start now. Since I went into preterm with my twins and this  time I miscarried this one.  He said they maybe totally unrealted, but doesn't hurt to check..  So that is where we are at for now.  

Northern -  I am so sorry.

[northernsunshine]

Thanks ladies for the words of comfort.  I'm not sure what we will do just yet about the specialist.  I know i'll be attending my consult when they call but after that not too sure...DH is starting his 2nd and finally year of College in September and he can't afford to take a week off to come with me to the fertility clinic which is 4 hours away.  He would have to stay there for 1 week with me between cd 12 and cd16 in order to do the IUI.  We might just wait until next year in May or June before getting that proceedure done.  It ***** but there's nothing we can do really.  DH needs to finish College so he can start his business so hopefully things will work out next year for us.  In the mean time we will just be trying on our own i guess.
Will keep poping in once in awhile to see how everyone is doing.
SSBD to all! ***************************************************************************************

[krichar]

I am classified as unexplained infertility....Not really sure what that means except no reason for constant heartache...

As for me, I am CD3...AGAIN!!! Waiting for the clinic to call but can't afford another FET just yet...not sure what we will do! I hope everyone on here is doing well!

[bam1014]

Chelle - I'm so sorry hun :(

Northern - I know exactly how you feel.  You know that DH and I were diagnosed with "unexplained" and I did several cycles of Clomid and Femara.  I hope you get to the specialist right away!  It took the one IUI for us and I wish I hadn't waited as long as we did.  Good luck hun, there is always hope!  If you ever need to talk you know where to find me.

[northernsunshine]

Well cd1 for me....out of the game again this month :(

[Jenni1187]

treatgirl - I'm so sorry to hear that. Try to stay strong. It's good to focus on other things right now (weight loss), while still hoping for the same goal so that's a great idea! Keeping you in my thoughts!

[bernie40]

treatgirl, I'm so so sorry hun :(  my thoughts are with you xx

northern - I know how you feel hun, saw my step daughter-in-law today she is due next week and felt myself welling up a couple of times, managed to hold it in but it took superhuman strength :(  

[treatgirl]

Thanks,

Well got my results in and my HCG went from 917 on friday to 78 on Monday so yes a def. miscarriage.  I go back on Monday for another Hcg level to make sure that is compelety clears on out.  So I guess I am for sure back over here.  But at least I am here with a bunch of very nice ladies.  So they said no trying for at least two normal cycles so I am going to get busy on exercsing and trying to get some weight off.  So that is going to be my new focus.  So I will be checking in on ya.

SSBD to you all!

[Jenni1187]

Amber - Congrats on the bfp!!! Yayyyy!

treatgirl - I'm keeping you in my thoughts! When I got pregnant (although it resulted in ectopic) I was spotting and was concerned. I called my doctor and they said that spotting while pregnant is fairly normal and I shouldn't be concerned unless it was accompanied by bad cramps or if the spotting is red. I hope that helps.

northern - I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I think we've all been there before ("why them and not us?") and it's a painful feeling. It's hard not to be bitter about it too but I hope you can find your way and move forward with the fertility specialist.

Baby dust to everyone!!!

[northernsunshine]

Treatgirl- my prayers are with you.

Today i went to see my obgyn since i'm done my 3 months of clomid and I'm VERY sure AF is on her way anyday now with the crampiness and the sore breasts that i'm getting.  Anyways, doctor says he's going to refer me to a fertility specialist now because there's nothing more he can help me with from his end as all my tests and DH tests are coming back great but still no bfp.  So now we are oficially categorized as "unexplained infirtility".  Oh well, hope the specialist can do something.  It was really hard sitting in the ob's office with all the beautiful baby bumps coming in and out of the office.  At one point i thought i got really emotional and all that would go through my head was "why not us, why all of them and not us???" i almost started crying, i could feel the tears coming up but then i was able to contain it real quick, thank goodness.

Well baby dust to all!

[treatgirl]

Hey, Everyone

Well looks like I will be coming back over here to join back up with ya.  On Friday I started spotting and so I went in for my HCG and it was at 900, I went back on Monday for another draw and I am still waiting for them to call me with it.  I wish they would hurry up and just call me.  Anyway they said with my past that it was possible to be carrying twins and to lose one.  But I just don't know.    I do have a question for anyof you that has had a miscarriage.  How long does the bleeding last?  I am not bleeding heavely more just spotty.
Please tell me this is normal.

Well I will catch up with you all soon.  I hope God Bless each and everyone of you .

[bernie40]

Bridgette, thanks so much for the update on Lori, I'm praying for her.

Amber - wow congratulations hun, so you're off this choo choo train :)

AF showed a day early for me on cd23 but it was in the afternoon so think that means I'm supposed to count from the following day???  I've started my ticker on the day it came though but shall try and work out ovulation from the following day - oh I'm rambling again, lol

SSBD

[Jenni1187]

Bridgette - Thanks for keeping us updated!!! I appreciate it!

[northernsunshine]

Bridgette- thank you so much for the update. So happy all went very well.  All my prayers will be for her quick recovery.

Lori- we miss you, hope you feel better soon...take care my friend.

[bam1014]

I just wanted to give everyone a quick update on Lori.  She had surgery today.  It went really well.  I'll let her give the details . . . but please pray for a quick recovery and she should be out of the hospital by the end of the week.

[northernsunshine]

Amber623- Whooho, that's great! Congrats on the BFP and praying for a very sticky bean! :)