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334926 tn?1436811523

Can I join?

Hi Everyone,
I would like to join this group. About me, I am 34 and am seeing a fertility specialist (my 2nd one) since March, I found out my tubes were blocked and had Lap surgery to unblock them..Got my very 1st bfp in June and a couple weeks later found out it was ectopic..Had emergency surgery June 26th 2009 to remove the baby I was 6wks 2days and we saw the baby on the ultrasound before my surgery, he/she was perfect, even had a heartbeat! I was lucky that I had great medical care and that this was discovered early as I was able to keep my tube..
Doc said to wait 2 months and try again, I found out Sept 20th I was pregnant again. We were excited but scared of another ectopic..Just found out yesterday that baby stopped growing and that I am having a miscarriage..I am 5wks 4days...I am completely devisted to lose 2 babies....I am thankful that this wasnt another ectopic and that I didnt have to go threw another surgery which means we can start trying again right away! So now Im just waiting to start my miscarriage bleed and move on...I think about my little angels all the time and im sad that I will never get to hold them in this life time..but I know I will see them someday in heaven..
I will keep my fingers crossed that we all get our bfp's and take home babies soon!
Lily
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924332 tn?1284573918
Welcome Lily!! Love to have you. As you know we have all suffered a loss and know all the different emotions you are going thru. so como join us on our Cycle buddies - OCT 5 that Bam just started for this week.

SSBD!!!
Rosie
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640548 tn?1340553355
Welcome Lily!  I am sorry for your losses.  The women here are wonderful and so supportive, so you'll always have somewhere to turn.
I update the Belly Buddies thread every Wednesday, and if you look at it, you can see how long that wonderful list is growing.  All of the women have suffered a loss or more, and have been blessed with a healthy pregnancy after, so don't lose hope, and let us encourage you that it will happen!
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693804 tn?1304720474
Hi Lily! Welcome to this wonderful group. I have been a member of MH since Nov. 08 after the loss of my son. The women here have become dear friends, and helped me to get where I am today. I'm sorry for your losses. I also had an ectopic back in 1996 which resulted in the loss of my tube, but a year later I gave birth to a healthy baby boy. I am activally TTC, and know that soon we will all get our BFP and give birth to our beautiful healthy babies. This is a great place to share our stories, pass on our knowledge and ask "LOTS" of questions.LOL......................Lori
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773214 tn?1295135069
Lily...of course you can join us and I am sorry to hear of your losses....
We are all here to support each other and eventually we WILL all get our BFPS and healthy babies!  We WILL!
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Whoops, I didn't see your post before I just left you a note.  Yes, please feel free to join in.  We all know the pain of a loss and the difficulty of moving on.

I post a new cycle buddies thread every weekend (usually late Sunday's) to update where everybody is at and to cheer on the TWW'ers.  Once you get your BFP (and we will ALL get there!), Aileen tracks all our preggers in her Belly Buddies thread that she updates every Wednesday.

There are lots of women here who have had to move onto fertility treatments, so any input or guidance you could provide will always be appreciated.
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991222 tn?1333990733
Welcome Lilly.  There are a great group of women in this community.  I look to them often for support.  Sorry to hear of your troubles, but you are right you have been luck in some ways! and i'm sure you will be blessed with a baby.  
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