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1181031 tn?1286629549

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Hi ladies I'm just looking 4 a little advice... I've had a MC n my partner n I want to try again.... How long should we wait and how long has it takin sum of u ladies TC... THANKS... Lost of babydust n (((((hugs)))))*****~~~~~*****~~~~~
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My mc was natural, my first period arrived 30 days after, my cycles have remained 30 days long also. It's such a horrible thing to go through but we will get there and will be pregnant again. I personally think you should wait at least 1 cycle so you can get yourself prepared for another pregnancy both mentally and physically. xxxx
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991222 tn?1333990733
I'm sorry you are going through this.  I had a m/c in june and had a D&C.  I got my AF 29 days after the procedure, and then my cycles were a little irregular for a few months.  I started TTC after my first cycle and after 3 cycles of trying was pregnant again.  I hope this helps.  If you have anymore questions please feel free to ask.
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1181031 tn?1286629549
Yeah I'm thing why should I be asking theese questions wen every on is not the same were hoping soon to should I wait until after at least my first cycle I've MC on the 21st wen should my first cycle come????? Babydust******~~~~~~***** ((((((HUGS))))))
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Hi, I'm just on 2nd cycle after my miscarriage, we started trying after 1 ycle. not sure how long it takes i think it just ranges you cant really say, but i have asked the sae thing.....hopefully not long...i want a baby so bad!!
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1181031 tn?1286629549
Thanks heaps for that ladies.... I had natural MC there was noo need for a D&C as mine was already complet I feel ready should I wait till I c my doctor on thirsday.... Also my bleeding lasted 3days after I was told I was having the MC but had brown spotting for 5daya befor that could that have been wen I MC or was of wen the red blood started????? Doctor could not tell me as the day I found out I was pregnant and had HCG tested was the day I started spotting than 5 days later they had droped by more than halfis u could help sorry for all the questions
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1128483 tn?1277340286
Dr's will tell you many different things.  It really depends on a few things, first if you had a natural miscarriage or a D&C, second if there are other health issues.  If no other health issues and a natural miscarriage I haven't seen/heard of any medical reason to wait.  if you had a D&C waiting at least one cycle is a good thing so you can get more of a lining for the baby to attach to.  I had a D&C and waited one cycle, I find out Thursday (hopefully not sooner) if I'm pregnant.  This would be my second full cycle after the D&C and first cycle trying.

Also, I'm glad I waited, it gave me time to emotionally heal, I won't really admit it, but I wasn't emotionally ready to try right away, and now it just feels right.  Last time I was pregnant (and miscarried) something didn't feel right, my husband even told me that.
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1186852 tn?1423660370
Hey, so sorry for your loss. I m/c december so i know how u feel. Many doctors say wait 3 cycles, some say 1 cycle, some say try when u feel ready. For me personally, i waited for my first AF before TTC, just to help with dates and stuff if a pregnany did occur. But, i think you should start TTC as soon as u feel ready to, its your body, only you know when the time is right! There are no medical reasons why you should wait a certain period of time, so i say go for it when u feel ready! **babydust**
Good luck =)
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