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welcome girls!!!

hi girls, this is our new private forum!  i have been talking with harry from medhelp and he says that this is a semi private forum just for us to chat!!!  so, whenever you have any updates, post a question and we can start a conversation about it.  this will keep the chats shorter so it won't be as hard/long for us to open!  also, for those of you that don't have profiles set up, you can do that to and we can message eachother personally.  you can also add pictures, journals, etc.  

when i say semi private, that means that people can still find us if they come upon us thru a search engine, otherwise, i will be just us!  this is exciting!  i hope all is well with everyone!!!  
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I went 2 the doc my womb swollen but couldn't c the yolk sak he told me 2 come back in 2weeks time. But then I started bleeding yesterday pink blood no clots or anything no cramps either hope I'm not having a miscarriage. Congrads hope your pregnancy goes smoothly
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I had a miscarriage in december 2011 was 3months its been a while so my fiance and I decided 2 try again. I had my pms 5 of feb 27 day cycle I'm suppose 2 start 2 day and its not here yet and I'm always regular. Lately I've been experience mood swings white discharge and cramps my boobs are sentative aswell I feel vommity but haven't vommited we realli want a baby it broke our heart 2 lose our 1st baby could I be pregnant or is it just me haven't done a preg test ganna take 1 2mz morning please any1 who can help
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Hi my name is Kierra i haven't been on in three days can that mean im pregnant it feel like im running on myself its not on my panties its just on the toiletpaper in its makin me go crazy
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Thot i was pregas misd ma period bt nw hvn tis white discharge tat i usualy hv b4 ma period wats up wt that
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VERY IMPORTANT!!!!  PLEASE READ!!!!!

hi girls,  just wanted to know if you would mind if i switched us to another thread on the baby dust forum.  because of all of our posts, this one is getting really long to open...  i will name it, BABY DUST GIRLS.  for those that are new, just go to the top of the page and go "back to forum" and you will see my new post title.  thanks muchly :-)

hkenny-girl, follow your gut!  we all know our bodies very well.  there were times where i thought i felt symptoms and maybe it could be it...but when i actually fell pregnant, even though i got a few bfns, i still just knew in my gut that this was it!  either that, or i was getting a horrible flu!  hehe.  
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hkenny.... when do you get your results for your blood test??? i am crossing my fingers for you! :)

katebud.... i know the 23rd seems like so far off, but i have learned to wait until the day your af is due, then test..... because all the negatives just confuse you and brake you down! best of luck to you, and hope you get your bfp!!!!!

jamie 21.... congrats to you and your family!  thanks for all your help and support!

all.... i have made a pact with myself that i cant test anymore until the day my af is due, or in my case the last day i think it may come. it is going to be sooooooo hard! but i just keep testing and getting negatives, and it kills me inside each time i see no line where i am praying and hoping it will pop up! i found myself ripping that test i took yesterday out of the trash like 5 times throughout the day, just hoping that the line would be there..... i feel so bummed out and down each time i test.... so i want to only feel this way once in the month not 5 times! it makes the time go by so slow if i keep testing and then getting my hope back up by telling myself it was too early to test.... well if i test once then i will only have to go through this once....

sorry.... i had to vent! :) it felt good to get my feelings out though!  thanks to all and happy baby dust to all trying to concievers!  and a big CONGRATULATIONS to all positive testers! and a hug to those who need it! :) have a great day and think positive! (literally) hehehehe
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460550 tn?1249846892
Wow!! Your from Edmonton? that is funny so am I.
I wish you luck for you. I hope your blood test comes back positive. I know I am going to get blood work done. Makes me nervous even though I have 2 positive urine tests.
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jamie21- CONGRATULATIONS! -you must be over the moon!

lynzieloo-I am with you, its very hard not to test, i shake everytime, and thus far mine have all been bfn.dont lose hope!

look_a_like I have my fingers crossed for you, I really hope you,me and lynzieloo can have some christmas babies!

Everyone- I just want to thank you all for your words, I feel so blessed that i stubbled across this forum, finally I can chat with girls that understand how i feel! its been a very positive experiance all around. I did another test yesterday morning (first response) and nothing!! how frustrating, I just have this "feeling" though. i have symptoms that can not be explained, i did a blood test and It was nice b/c the doctor i saw was really supportive and said you know those tests can work very early (wich we have heard on here) but not for everyone. she said sometimes you have to trust your own gut. so i am anticipating a positive...no sign of AF yet and she was due on sunday.
I cant even imagine how I am going to feel if i get a bnf on the blood test. My heart will break i think....but i dont wanna think that way until i have too.

thanks again ladies!!

Baby dust for christmas babies!!! ************************************************************

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Yes maybe I will just have 1 baby this time. Mind you twins are ALOT of fun. Each day they do something new and its fun. Only down fall is my boys started walking at 9 months and then right after they started the climbing. So now my baby gates aren't exactly baby proof any more, they like to climb them. My little monkies. But other then all of that they are really funny to watch. Mind you one of them has started doing nasty tantrums don't find that too fun.

Katebud- Oh I hope you are pregnant this time around. I know how frustrating it is trying every month and yet still getting nothing. With my boys it took 8 months before I conceived them, and I conceived them in March, just like this one so now we have another december its going to be an expensive month. Oh a new years baby would be nice. Yes we were planning to have a 2009 baby in the summer, but I got pregnant faster then what I was told by doctors after coming off BC. So you can test on the 23? Well good luck to you. I hope everything works out

Krissyy-  I don't know exactly when I will be able to get in to see my obgyn. Hopefully after I get my blood work done I will be able to get an appointment made.
I know with my twins I got in for my first ultra sound at 19 wks. So hopefully this one it will be sooner.
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lookalike-we weren't telling anyone we were ttc either and it's been wonderful to confide and get advice/share experiences with these girls along the way :-)

jamie-twins run heavy in my dad's side of the family so i was sure i was going to have a pair!  as much fun as they can be, for reasons that you described, i am sort of grateful that this one is a singleton!!!  will they try to get you into your obgyn earlier than usual since you recently had a m/c?  sometimes they make you wait 6-8 weeks!!  i was able to get in at about 6.5 weeks...

keeks-i know what you mean!  i checked yesterday and after only missing maybe 2 days, i was sooooo far behind!!  

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WOW , lots to catch up on! lol......I will try to respond to all the individual posts tommorow , but I just wanted to get online & and least say I read the posts and caught up! lol

Im from Canada too.....British Columbia to be exact!

Lynzie , I was 5 days away from my AF when I got my BFP , using a clearblue test , at like 11 30pm...it was faint though

TONS UPON TONS OF BABY DUST TO ALL THE TTC'ERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jamie21, congratulations!!!  That is good work, conceiving right after stopping the pill!  I myself stopped it last July, so almost a year ago (kinda).  It looks like if I'm prego this time around, I will have a New Year's baby :)  so hopefully this will be my month.  I get to test the 23 at the earliest, so I'm near the beginning of the joyful tww. ;)

Love and baby dust to all, especially the new girls!
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Hello,

I stopped my birth control on the 9th of march, and that was my last blue pill before my sugar pills. So on the 15th of march I start to ttc, and about 2 weeks ago I bought a test because I just couldn't wait and it said negative. So on the 12th of march is when I was supposed to get my period according to my birth control and it never came which is normal, it usually comes on the 4th sugar pill I take. So I did a test on the 13th april and I actually did two tests to double check and they both said positive. It depends on the pregnancy test you buy. I did first response which supposedly it says can tell up to 4 days before missed period.
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so i broke down and tested today! i know i should have waited! LoL well i got a bfn... :( but i still have 3-5 days before my af, or maybe even a few more, depending on when it should start... (i used to have a strict 26 day cycle, but since i stopped the pill it has been odd... once was 30 days, so i duno..) but i will test in 5 days or so if af doesnt come! i hope not :)
cn you all tell me how many days before af did you get positive results???? with my daughter i was 2 days before af. but like i said, my cycles arent consistent since i went off the pill, so i dunno....

lookalike.... crossing my fingers for you too!  let us know what your results are! :) hopefully we have 2 christmas babies! how wonderful would that be!
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I'm testing tomorrow for sure if AF doesn't show up which I'm hoping she doesn't.
My next MP is supposed to be tomorrow so we shall see.  
Oh and I'm from Canada too!  

everyone-  this forum is so great for me.  we haven't told anyone we are TTC so it's so nice to be able to share and chat with others.  You are all so great and supportive.
Crossing my fingers to add a Christmas baby to this forum  =)

Happy thoughts to all.......... <3
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Yes I did, I go tomorrow. Well that is just to meet with my family doctor. After I GET blood work done I will make it with my OB-GYN.
Pregnancy can be fun, but with my twin boys I got put on bed rest at 24 weeks and I stayed on bed rest till I had my boys at 38 weeks, and I got really uncomfortable carrying 2 6 pound babies was rough. So maybe this time will be a little easier. Unless I have twins again.
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linzieloo, hkenny, katebud-girls, i wish you loads of baby dust!  sorry i can't write more individually...i want to do my denise austin fit and firm pregnancy workout (which i highly recommend to all of you!!) before i eat dinner...hkenny-glad hubby is coming around...pregnancy is contagious and when friends and family start, you just can't help but get the baby bug!!!

jamie21-yay!!!!  i am so happy for you!  did you make your doctor appointment yet?  i wish you a happy, healthy pregnancy!

mandy-i know, my belly is finally growing!  i have been taking pics every month even though my belly was tiny.  now i may start every 2 weeks...  i need to post some for you all to see...  i am so upset to hear that the heartbeat thing doesn't work.  i have been very tempted to try it out...maybe it will work further along in pregnancy...



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I am from canada
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*squeals* Awww, really? I'm so glad!!! That makes more sense, if he was really young when it happened the first time, he's probably terrified of it feeling the same way. I'm so glad you guys talked and he's more on board now! It's so much fun to watch them get just as excited. I found that with my bf just talking about why he was nervous helped him a ton. I'm so excited for yoU!
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i am glad that your hubby came around for you. you seem to be so relieved that he is now on the same level as you are with this "possible pregnancy". to answer your question..... yes you can go to the dr and get a blood test, but most doctors wont give you one unless you have a positive urine test, but its worth a shot to see if they will do it for you. did you test with the early result test??  the first response early result detects the lowest amount of hcg, so you might buy that kind and see if you get your bfp then. sounds like you have alot of pregnancy symptoms, so i am wishing for this to be your month! :) baby dust and best wishes to all!!!
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Hey ladies,

is any one else in Canada?
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Hi,

thanks so much for your reply,

Hubby has said its a money thing he wants us to have more savings, ( really if you knew us that is crazy he makes a 6 figue salaryand have a beautiful home ) and he said he "just isnt ready" i had a really good talk with him last night, since he obviously didnt plan to have a 12 year old now (he was 17 when she was born) he feels like he wants to have more control over when our kids are coming.
I really belieive I am pregnant, i am now one day late and just did a test with a bfn. I have so many syptoms though.....last night i swear i looked purple down there, and hubby agreed, heart burn, lots of white/ clear cm, slight pain in lower abdomin for 3 days now.and i feel different, is it to early for me to ask for a blood test?
Hubby said he was scared last night, but excited too, he said it would be surreal if I was.he was all smiley and giggly........so that is GREAT!!
I have the day off so I may go to the medi centre and ask for a blood test. its funny b/c my mom thinks i am and her gut feelings are usually right! wish me luck!

baby dust to alllllll!!!!!!!!!!! ********************88
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About 2 weeks pregnant. This time around I am feeling a little more sick and dizzy, and really tired. Which me and getting napping done is funny.... Not with two 16 month olds around who have more energy then I will ever have.
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Pepsi isnt "bad" per-say , its just the caffeine.....but your allowed 2 cups of caffineated coffee a day....so a pepsi or two wont hurt , the main reason I try to avoid is for the sugar.....its just pure calories.....but I love it WAY to much to give it up LOL.....Im trying to drink more apple juice & water , I find I get really de-hydrated drinking a Pepsi and I get BAD acid refulx from it.......and as far as your mocha's from Baskin Robbins , your doing a good thing by halfing the coffee....if you dont notice a difference then even better! lol.....and from what ive been told caffeine is only really bad in the 1st trimester....Just dont drink diet pop because the aspartane is WAY worse than the caffeine!

Thats so cute you waddle LOL......I have REALLY bad balance issues now that I have a tummy , I have a hard time finding my "centre" I guess you could say.....Im not that big at all.....I can still wear my normal jeans , just with the button un-done and with my bella band....I notice my tummy is alot harder though.......Im gonna get some maternity clothes here soon though , Im having a hard time getting my shirts to cover the bottom of my tummy now that its kinda round........Im 18 weeks and ive only gained about 5lbs....but its all fluid & water so I dont feel SO bad lol......I know the craving for McDonalds cheeseburgers & 7-11 nacho chips & cheese are going STRAIGHT to my ***  though so ive gotta lay off LOL

Jamie , Congrats on your BFP! How exciting! How far along are you? Keep in touch & let us know how the pregnancy goes :)
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