I want to be good looking

[detpiston7788]

If i just had one wish, it would be to be a good looking guy. I just feel that girls hate me because of my looks. I never get asked out or hit on. I have blond hair, average built, i drive a 94 dodge intrepid and i have two jobs.  However, it isnt good enough. I just want to meet a really nice girl, she dosent have to be hot, just a nice person. But, i dont have good enough looks.. Ladies, please help me, im really sad and i will do anything to be good looking. What do u suggest? I dont want to change myself but i gotta do it in order to meet people...

[TrayCee]

a "nice girl" wont care what you look like on the outside.  She'll see your heart.

[peggy64]

have you asked out any girls that fit the description of someone you are wanting to meet? Maybe you could just pray about it and let the Lord lead you to the person you are supposed to marry.

[margypops]

Well how about this one you bowl them over with your charismatic personality,Gals like kindness, they are all old fashioned enough to want you to open the door of the car, be admiring but not over the top, interested , get into the habit of listening, just a thought stay on here with us and you will be used to listening and enjoy it, Best of all.. that I can give you is..........a sense of humor, gals like to laugh, get a girl laughing and hey you have  got it made ..trust me ,so what was the lesson......listen to them, then make em laugh .they will be eating out of your hand . Just an after thought , they like to get Married , you know the pastor and the ring ...good luck

[chiono]

the way you described  yourself seems to be the way you think of yourself.
get rid of that  change your attitude, start saying you're attractive and hard-working its just a bad period it doesnt have to always be like that :)
I've seen ugly men happy and you've got much more charm than them. :)

[jesicomp]

Without knowing anything about you, it is hard to pinpoint why women dont hit on you or ask you out. You say you want to be good looking..maybe that is a loud enough hint that other women pick up on that says you have a lack of confidence in yourself?? I only say this because my brother-in-law has the same issue, only he wont ask girls out either. He thinks they just dont like him. You just need to be comfortable with yourself, before anyone else can. If thats what it is its not hard to pick up on, and can make those around you feel awkward. You may be missing a lot of signals from women too. (like my bro-in-law).....Bottom line here is, I dont think you have any reason to gripe....just be happy, keep trying I totally agree with choino, give yourself some credit.