I'm now 46 yrs old and have had a bumpy road. I started having severe mood swings when I turned nineteen and was wrongly diagnosed with just depression when I was actually severe Bi-polar. I used alcohol especially in these younger years to make me feel normal what ever that is? Still to this day when I do have a few glasses of wine or a six pack of beer I just feel better, more relaxed. I've been on so many different drugs I can't name them all, I'm presently on lithium and tegratol. I married my long time girlfriend despite telling her she would be better off without me and we were married for 16 years and had two incredible sons now 15 and 20. I was very verbally abusive towards my oldest son and cannot forgive myself, when I was stable I was a different person but out of no where would become very angry and lash out at the ones I love most. I became addicted to Norco pain pills five years ago and quit cold turkey, I haven''t had any pain meds since October 1st of 2014. By then the damage had been done, neither one of my children will even talk to me not that I blame them. They are the two most important people on this planet to me. I guess my question is should I even be in their lives? Will I relapse with the pain meds since I have had two back surgeries that have left me disabled, I will never be normal but over the past six months I have been as stable as possible, I'm controlling my anger outbursts but for how long. Do I keep trying, I can't seem to move on with my liife without them in it. I guess I"m getting what I deserve...