medication shuffle... need response quickly

so ive been on seroquel for only like a week now. 25 mg and my ob doc called today and said she does not want me on this med. Im so confused. her reasoning makes sense though. having been my ob and family practitioner for 2 years she knows that normally durring my pregnancy i am very level and have never shown any signs of hypomania. So her thoughts are that i should be re evaluated after my pregnancy. So 20 minutes later, she calls me back and says that she spoke with the p doc and has decided that i SHOULD stay on it! Mainly to treat my anxiety because i have not been able to stop the klonopin. i am taking 1 mg at night because it seems as though the seroquel has a paridoxial effect and i have a panick attack within an hour of taking it. not to mention that although my depression is MUCH better on the seroquel, i still dont have my life back. i still dont go out and live life like i used to. i constantly avoid and reschedule appointments just so i dont have to leave the house. so im at the point where i feel like should i even be taking any medication at all because what works for me im being told not to take and what doesnt fix the problem is what is being shoved down my throat. i understand that the klonopin is a category d in pregnancy but i have been told and also read in reseach that it can be ok if its nessecarry and then that its a NO NO> why cant anything be clear? Im so confused.