Not a question but a comment! I'm beginning to learn things from all the posts that are helpful with my search for a more
positive and functional relationship with my gf. All the jumping around, confusing statements, and inconsistencies that have plagued our communications do have meaning...it's just that i'm not seeing it very well, instead i have been reacting. I have let the Irish out in me! I get emotional and stop thinking, and feel threatened! I had never heard someone
threaten to kill herself before...threw me into a panic. I have very mixed feelings now. I don't want to keep playing the part off being her "hero" and saving her from herself....very unhealthy mutually. I still want to show my love and i am not ready to abandon the relationship, but i have serious doubts about the future. Does anyone out there thinlk that she can bond emotionally, that she could be a co-equal partner, or am i just asking to much? Should i wait for her or confront her? She really hates confrontation with anyone...that for sure!