Is it possible for your husband to get a vasectomy? Many couples go this route when they are done having kids and it's a great option for you because you don't have to do anything or remember to take anything. Why does the birth control responsibility always have to fall on the woman? You went through so much just to have those two kids, and he hasn't had to do anything except get you pregnant in the first place. Isn't it time for him to step up and take some responsibility for birth control? I think it's a great option to consider since you said you're done having kids.
The implanon worked great for me. I got it in 2009 was suppose to take it out in 3 years but I took it out at 5 years and I never once got pregnant. That is absolutely the best birth control. Well only birth control I've had.
I got pregnant on the implanon an didn't no till i lost the baby at what they think was 20 ish weeks, then i got pregnant on a high strength pill ( taken correctly ) and had my son and iv fallen pregnant with the marina iud. The iud coursed the pregnancy to be ectopic