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I am not trying to offend anybody here

Just to be clear with u guys no offence to anybody but my daughter is almost 7 weeks old and I had already my appt for birth control and today I told them I wanted to get the nexplanon that is for 3 years I am so happy bcuz they will inserted in two weeks bcuz I heard so many stories about women's having their baby and already pregnant and I am really scare about that happening to me I have a 3 year old and my 7 week old daughter and I really don't want a third for the moment I won't be able to work anymore and I don't like being a home mother I want to work as soon as the baby turns 5 or 6 months old ...with three its really hard bcuz u pay so much on babysitter and not just that its hard to go out too but yea I am so happy I am getting that...I was gonna get the 5 year one the Mirena or IUD but I am afraid with that one so I will stay with the nexplanon one...what do u guys think about it or what are u guys planing to use after giving birth??? If u guys had this birth control before what do u guys think??
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Really 3 kids or at least be 28 ? That is so not cool lol
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I wanted my tubes tied too I'm 23 and have two kids my doctor told me that they prefer you to be at least 28 or have three kids already to get it done.
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Yea im 21 going on 22  and I'll ask about it and see what they say im done having kids  tho .. But my oldest wants a brother so she tells me one more after her little sister is born  I have to be 24 to get them tied
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No worries... You are not offending noone. Everyone is in different situations. Some plan back to back pregnancies. And other want babies wayyyyyy apart. Good luck on the birth control
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How old are you StefenyV? I will be getting my tubes tied. I thought they would have told me the same thing but no. I've already signed my paperwork. I'm 24 but this also makes baby #4. I have (3) boys ages 8, 3, and 1, and my husband finally gets his little princess, so we're done making Babies.
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What about the one in your arm that's the one I will do in two weeks its call the nexplanon for 3 years I believe they check it up every 6 months to see that everything is fine ...and how old are u??? This isy second baby my first is 3 years old and second one almost 7 weeks old but my bf wants two more I feel that I am done ...I am telling him to wait I will be 20 on this month I can't be having soany kids too young that's why I can't get my tubes tie
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I has the marina I didn't like it , it has hormones it gives you a weird smell I wish someone told me about that , than again idk if it happens to everyone , I actually want to tie my tubes after this baby but they said I was to young to do it so Idk what birth control to use either
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My2loves1316 which one was the last u tried
..that u said it didn't work
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Thanks girls I will take the advice..
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I meant iud ...lol
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Try it out and see what you like I had  both didn't like either it's up to you it works differently for everyone  good luck I honestly don't know what I'm going to use once baby is born
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I've had friends  do both. Seems like the idea is liked most. But u should just try and see what's better for you.
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Well its really up to you . Just give it a try for 6 months and if you don't like it you can always take it off. I tried almost all methods and didn't like any. But well the last one I tried and kinda liked was the less effective , I got pregnant off of it
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