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Please Someone HELP! I'm pregnant! And I want to be happy about it!

I am pregnant. My last period was on January 28th and due date is November 4th. During the time of "ovulation" based on my guess of when I was ovulating, I had sex with 2 different people. 1 person i completely had unprotected sex with on numerous occasions in February. On the 2nd, 4th, 8th and 14th. The other man I had protected sex with but also had unprotected anal sex on 2 occasions. On the 4th and the 11th of February. Who is the father of my child? I am scared of semen somehow leaking inyo my vagina because of posts I have read on the internet...although I dont remember this happening. When I had a bowel movement semen did come out. The first man I had unprotected sex with had gotten me pregnant last year but I misscarried. I really want this to be his child. Can someone please help me out with advice or reassure me? I know nothing is 100% but what is the probability it could be the second guys???
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1716293 tn?1309465350
No Problem and if yu need to talk i'll be here even though we dont personally know each other and so on :)
i know going through this could be difficult.
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Thank you for making me feel better! I have my good days and my bad! I want to be excited an most days I am...but I just need this so badly to be the first mans child. The baby and I are healthy! Thanks for the congrats!
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1716293 tn?1309465350
yea chances of that happening are very slim, but like i said yu can always go get a test if yer still worried :)
dont stress too much the babys health and yers is whats more important right now, but i see why yu would worry...lemme know how yer feeling.
Oh&Congratz on the BABY
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I have never heard of someone I know getting pregnant from anal sex...but have read on the internet there is a tiny chance if semen leaked into the vagina somehow....though they say chances are miniscule?
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Thank you. I just so badly want it to be the first guys...I dont see really HOW it could be the second guys...especially since on the 11th he didnt even ejaculate in the condom when we had protected sex. However, he did on the 4th...but the condom was used properly. I am more paranoid about the anal sex!
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Thank you Charlene..this is what makes most sense...I am just scaring myself. Do you have any other thoughts?
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1716293 tn?1309465350
Yes I agree with charlenePienaar. But still you never know, no matter what though make sure everything good down there&with the bby. But with having unprotected sex with the first guy especailly numerous times its more likely to be his&if anything yu can always if yu dnt want to get the 1st dude stirred up, then yu can get a DNA test with the second one when the bbys more developed..or just wait&see. Keep me updated&i hope yuu just don't stress too much hunn.
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1716074 tn?1308798034
It is definitely the first guy.  Be sure to take an HIV test as well for the health of your baby and sexual partners
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Also....the condom did NOT break or slip off with the partner I had protected sex with
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