Pregnancy from precum?

[spontaneousx]

Yesterday my boyfriend and I were fooling around. I gave him a handjob and then I touched my vaginal opening with the same hand (I probably went in only about 1 in-1 cm). He hadn't ejaculated yet, but I'm not sure if there was any precum on his penis... From what I recall, it was dry, but I know he got some precum on his boxers awhile after I started jacking him off.

I know precum itself doesn't contain any sperm, but CAN contain sperm if he ejaculated previously (within 72 hours I think - which I know he did). He said he went to the bathroom before we started messing around, so maybe that washed out a lot of it?


When I went home yesterday, I freaked out and took a hot shower immediately. I know this is stupid, but I used soap down there and fingered myself pretty vigorously with the body wash on my finger, hoping it would kill any sperm if it got up there. (Stupid, I know)


Today, my vagina is incredibly sore and there's a little bit of brown/red on my underwear. I'm scared this might be from implantation? I'm so scared I'm going to get pregnant. I'm young and I know I should have stayed away from sexual activity, but I made a really stupid mistake and now I can't focus or anything because I'm so worried


SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME
IM FREAKOUT OUT :( :(

[jude82]

i dont think your pregnant sounds like when you were washing the area you just irritated it if you or your boy friend fool around again may i suggest condom because the only way to be 100% confirmed no pregnancy is via test if no period has come along  which means for two weeks even though very unlikely you will still stress when possibly nothing to stress about also if it turns out your periods dont come on time it could be the stress from worrying about pregnancy i know rough circle :-) your young not actually going to endorse sexual activity but i was young once and understand about the curiosity and that with both you and your boyfriends body just use protection for both your sakes keep us updated and good luck

[Gina04]

Not absolutely sure.  I believe that they can live on a surface like a sheet for about an hour but that if they are on skin (a warm area) that they can live several hours.

[spontaneousx]

do you know how long sperm can live outside of the body? like when the fluids are dried out?

[Gina04]

If any of his sperm came in contact with your vagina, you could get pregnant.  If sex was yesterday, implantation will not likely happen until about 6 to 10 days from now.  The blood almost certainly was not from implantation.  The soreness and brown/red blood is probably due to the fact that you are very irritated down there from the washing.  It is possible that there was no sperm there in the first place or that you washed them out, but it is also possible that you will get pregnant.  If in a couple weeks you find you are pregnant, I hope you can raise the baby yourself even though you are young.  If you can't, I can help you find a loving home for your baby.  Hopefully you are not pregnant and will choose abstinence until marriage so you don't need to worry about this again.

[spontaneousx]

PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!