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I am currently 17 weeks pregnant, & unsure of who exactly the father is. My due date is 4-22-13, and I have had two ultra sounds. The first ultrasound said i was 13 weeks and 4 days according to my doctor. The second says 17 weeks now. Me and my ex fiance broke up around july 4th, and i met a man earlier that year who had always liked me and i decided to date him after the breakup. Me and my current boyfriend (not the fiance), had sex without a condom july 15th-19th, but he pulled out each time. Then on july 24th would have been me and my ex fiances 5 year anniversary so while drinking away some of my bad feelings he calls me and i make the mistake of sleeping with him. On august 17th I find out im pregnant. Now heres some background on me and my ex fiances sex life: We have been trying to have a baby for two years, and i have never gotten pregnant, not once. I always thought it was me, (But its obviously not) but is there a chance that now we had sex the 24th the same way we always have that I am pregnant with his baby? July 15th-19th or July 24th? this is a hard thing for me to solve. I dont know who the father is and i would like opinions that aren't to harsh. Seventeen weeks ago was july 19th, when i had my first ultrasound 13 weeks and 4 days was july 15th, but everytime i googled what could be my possible date of conception it says i wasnt ovulating until july 22nd-26th. Can somebody help me? keep in mind that my ex and i tried for two years. Thanks, -Jen
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Your dates of intercourse are too close together to be able to determine which man is the father.  Only way to know for sure is DNA testing after you deliver.  As for your due date, usually doctors go with the date from the first ultrasound because that's when the measurements are the most accurate.  Do not rely on information off the Internet, it is not reliable.  Discuss your concerns with your doctor.
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You'd need a dna test. The dates are too close. Remember the day conception takes place is prob not the same as the day you have sex. It's normally take 2/3 days though could be up to a week. The withdrawal method is not effective as a method of contraception
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