Should I be worried?

[K1990]

Okay so this month I didn't realize but I didn't have a new pill pack so I have gone this month without my bc at all.  Well on day 8 I had unprotected sex and didn't think anything about it.  I know that if I skip a pill a few times a month that my period comes a week early... should I be worried about this?  

[MyNameWillBeBob]

Ur just having ur period a little early that's all

[sweetangel7]

You can be even more unsure thanks to all the missed pills...

[K1990]

It should come in about 10-12 days Im not exactly sure.

[Kels123]

So after all of this.....when is your period due?

[K1990]

Thank you ladies for all of you advice and help!

[BeautifulPrincess]

Take a pregnancy test if your worried. its unlikely you are pregnant.

[tiredbuthappy]

if you're not sure about whether or not precum can get you pregnant, hop on over to maternal and child and ask! There are some lovley ladies there with babies conceived with precum.

[cminamyer]

Precum does have some sperm in it, and cd12 of your cycle is fertile time.  You need to take care of yourself, because YES you could have gotten pregnant from that one time.  Chances are slim, but it is a possablility.

[K1990]

g8r grl~ it was the other guy not my fiance!

[GRose]

From what I have heard on this site is that precum itself doesn't contain any semen but there can be some left over in the penis if he recently ejaculated. Not sure if there is any truth to that though.

[g8r grl]

Wait...was it your fiance or the friend that you had sex with on day 8? I was assuming the fiance, but now I'm not sure.

I'm sorry, but you should break off your engagement until you can decide for sure who you want to be with. Your fiance looks like a nice guy who doesn't deserve getting cheated on. If this happened while you were engaged, then why wouldn't it happen after you're married?

[K1990]

I just updated the other fourm.

[BabyHardiman]

You failed to mention any of this on the Realtionship forum K.  By all means please go over and update everyone that you are suspecting pregnancy and that your fiance' may not be the father.  If you are going to share a story - share the WHOLE story.    

[K1990]

AJH84~ Thanks for letting me know... I don't know that I should worry the chances are probably slim.  I haven't had sex with anyone else this month so if I end up pregnant Ill know whose it is... I can't believe I did this...  THanks for you help!

[AHP84]

My apologies...after looking up more info about pre-ejaculate, it's debateable whether or not it's as potent as the semen in ejaculation.

[K1990]

So then my period lasted 4 days so it was day 12...

[AHP84]

In a normal, 28-day cycle, ovulation occurs around day 14.
Day 1 is the day you start your period.
Sperm can live between 5-7 days.

[K1990]

If my period doesnt come a week early this month is 8 days after my period anything to worry about?

[K1990]

Grammy and tiredbuthappy~ I know what I did was so stupid but I really appreciate you help and respect!  I really value advice and support, so thank you very much!  I think there isn't much of a reason to worry... he didn't finish... and it was only on day 8 since my period ended so... I guess ill cross my fingers!

[AHP84]

Pre-ejaculate is just as potent as the semen in the ejaculation.

[grammy64]

She was asking....we were trying to help...sheesh!

[mamaofonetrying42]

I agree with Pinkbelle! Its her bussiness.....let it be....

[tiredbuthappy]

she stated that when she skips pills, her period comes a week early. with a 3 week cycle, day 8 is definitely O time.

[K1990]

Well he didn't really finish but he did have a lot of precum...  I don't think I should be worried about it.  It was 8 days after my period ended.