The Paraguard regards...

I just recieved the PG just yesterday and booy was it painful I' have 2 children my son 6 n my daughter 3 so it was  nothing   that I never exspirence b4 I also had painful cramps,dizziness n a hot sweat. What I fale 2 do is research until 2nite now Im terrified n think I made a by decision. Like must Ive tried many form of bc the Shop made my hair fall out,weight gain,hot flashes n lack of sex desire the Patch ruin my skin. So after all that I decied to get the PG bcuz of no hormones but after reading the post it seems like alot of the side efects r similar. I have a very light 3day peroid n no cramps n 6yrs. Y did I decied 2 get it other than hormones my husband is comming home n 60days n we've been apart 4 16mnths n we r both over due lol but I dnt want more children now so I thought it would b the choice of BC minus all the hormones my regard is my sex life? I read that the man can feel things n some couldnt does the size play role and will it b painful 4 me?