why do i hate women,the thought love

[mentos]

i think most women are nothing but foul little beast who lack substance are stupid in their selection of men
and no i'm not gay and i have an excellent relationship with my mom

i think love is bs...nothing more than a trap,i see it as illogical,and necessary,why would some one trade in all of their freedom things like being able to enjoy your money for you,having tons of fun with the opposite sex,and most importantly being able to come and go as one chooses because they "don't want to be lonely"...it seems foolish to me..like being single out ways being trapped in a relationship or marriage for that matter

[Nikki1220]

Why does it concern you then? If you lead your life the way you want to, why does it upset you so and it sounds that it makes you angry that others choose to find a special someone to share their life with. IT really should not concern you what others do with their own personal life. Live yours for you and they will their life for them. All will be happy  that way. Just a question are your parents together still? Does your mom know your ill feelings of women? Personally, I do not think that people have to give up things to be with someone else, that is what they choose. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we live together, but his money is his money and my money is my money. We share bills, and neither of us feel we do not have freedom. Maybe you just have not met the right person for you. Or maybe you are a person that will do best as a Bachelor. But, again if you are happy with your choices in your life, why do you sound so bitter about what others choose for their life?????

[Nikki1220]

Oh, have you ever been in a serious relationship with a woman??????  If so, what happened?

[mentos]

i was in a serious relationship...and i she was the only women that i have felt this way about....but sure enough she hurt me by messing with another guy on the side...when i found this out i arrived at the conclusion that most women are shady and shouldn't be trusted

[Nikki1220]

I see, thanks for clearning things. I can understand , I was married for 8 years and had 2 children with my ex along with devoting my whole life as a mother and a wife, I gave up all chances of a career for those years. Only for a man that also DID ME Wrong! But, as time has passed I understand NOT all men are like that, but he was and he alway will be, and it was not me, it was him and still is him. But, I will be honest with you, still to this day, i have very serious trust issues and am very intimidated by other attractive women around when my bf and I go out. That comes from the years that I lived married and dedicated to a man that cheated and did not care for anyone but himself. IT took me about 3 years to finally get to the point where I feel my life is just starting to be normal a little. I still have a long way to go. One day at a time. You will find the right one, trust me, she is out there, and you will be happy again. I wish you the very best. I sort of thought you had a bad experience with a woman, by your words but was not sure. It will pass with time. Good Luck again, Nikki

[LoosyLucy]

i felt the same way about men. and about relationships. for a long time. and then you get back into a relationship and it happens over again. but you really shouldn't just say that women are all bad, and i've been with men with your attitude and it ended up hurting me and they ended up being exactly what they were saying they hated about women. i'm a woman and i don't really like women either, which isn't very good. but i know in the end that it's not about gender, it's just about finding someone that you can trust. you won't be able to trust right away, but you might be able to eventually. and i have been hurt and abused by men i loved and trusted, but ultimately i get over the hurt, and here's the main thing i decided: i don't want to avoid loving someone or being loved simply because it might cause me pain, because i can get over pain. but it's worth it, in the end, to feel really good about someone you're with, rather than have lots of empty relationships. it's like, why do people fear pain so much, so they avoid relationships? if you're hurt, you come out stronger. but the worst thing is being afraid of pain rather than the pain itself. like getting a tattoo--people are all afraid of the pain, and it can be really bad, and you can come out with a bad tattoo. but you learn from that, and the actual pain only lasted a second, and you can fix the tattoo and make it better, or know what you don't want to do again. i don't know if you really need a response but there you go.

[l-horn]

What an interesting forum.

" i think most women are nothing but foul little beast who lack substance ..."

haha....women are a mystery for sure but so are men. Young women I think are in a strange place these days but that's another topic. Doesn't mean they're little beasts. Everyone is subject to the tugs and pulls of the culture. I think young women/girls are certainly being misguided these days. I have a teenage son and I've given him all the warmings as I did the daughter. There was a time I was more concerned for my daughter and her relationships with boys and how the world would treat her but I'm far more concerned about my son now days. Used to the boys were the wild ones to look out for, now it's the girls.