Routine mammogram led to "suspicious" cysts; diagnosed intermediate DCIS after needle biopsy. I'm 46, my physician says "you've probably had this for 5 years". My question, if this has been there for 5 years, what's the rush for
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Mastectomy - series? I'm thinking check it every 6 months and treat when/if it begins to change.
Also concerned about recurring pain and bruising at biopsy site - can a biopsy actually make things worse by stirring around in there?
I wish you an easy time through everything.
my liver function test - no results yet - they are just going to be OK though. The husband and also Dad of two ladies in my Bible Study group was taken to the local hospital Tues with possible stroke. They found a brain tumor. Since I had to go to Baptist Hospital (NC) today for my test, another friend rode along as he was having surgery to remove the tumor. He was found to have a brain cancer, Stage III or IV; waiting on the path report and will take a few days but surgeon said at least a Stage III. I think that is one of the hardest things I have done since I was diagnosed - hearing another family I knew told that a loved one had cancer. I cried and I still get emotional.
Life is so hard sometimes - that we all know well. Blessings,
I participated in the first Tamoxifen trial because I have 3 daughters and had a pretty bad feeling I would be a statistic too.
Turns out my younger sister got breast cancer 1 year before me. The doctor in the trial said I was most likely protected those 3 years longer because I had the Tamoxifen instead of the placebo.
I read posts in this forum about women afraid of side effects etc...there are no side effects after you die.
Naniam - I to am from North Carolina - Charlotte. Do you live close to NC Baptist Hospital? I will be getting care from the Blumingthal Cancer Center here in Charlotte.
ejr6358 - I am leaning toward the masectomy. Again I'm so afraid of the surgery. Not losing the breast. My husband is great. I am greatful for such support. We have both been reading up on this. I have cried everyday and night for almost three weeks now. I think I'll have a nervous breakdown. My life was wonderful just three weeks ago. I'm sure your stories are the same. Stange how life can change so dramaticly in such a short period of time. I am a housewife, surround myself with family and don't have any friends. I don't even know where my children will stay while I go through this surgery. I'll see my surgeon on Monday. How are you? Are your kids OK? Did you opt for reconstruction? I don't think I want anything else in there since it may block view of any future cancers if they return.
Please keep us up to date. To many post here that don't return to share there stories. I'll write on Monday to let you know what my surgeon says.
All I can say to you...hold on to your husband and your family. The surgery was not bad...I was in for 9 hours and it seemed like 10 seconds...so that is not bad. I did opt for reconstruction..from the tissue in my back. I am thankful that I did....the first week is not bad because you are still so numb..I would say week 2-3 was tough because feeling returns and the drain tubes start to get on your nerves. I just had mine removed this past thursday and that has made a huge difference.
I quit looking on the internet because it was freaking me out. The reconstruction pics were making me sick. So my surgeon showed me his work and that made things better.
I wish I could make it easier for you....my husband knows....I have not been myself since my diagnosis.....so don't feel bad...I have gone off the deep end several times...and he was always there to catch me..it is a huge hit to a woman...it does make you feel like you are going crazy....
Good luck on Monday...I will put you and your family in our prayers.
I live in Hickory and had my surgery here. I think I mentioned that they were sure I had BC so they did an excisional biopsy (removed the tumor) and I was told they got all of it. When I returned for my postop visit I was told they didn't get clean margins/edges and 4 days later I was back in for re-excision of margins and a sentinal node biopsy. My lymph nodes were clear, however, when I returned for my postop visit once again I was told they still didn't get clean margins/edges and that he had removed a total of 8 lymph nodes. That kind of upset me as if the first node is negative, then it isn't necessary to remove more and also we still didn't have clean edges but they had removed all the breast tissue they could without doing a mastectomy and that chemo and radiation should take care of any cells left behind. My daughter is an RN and my son-in-law an MD on staff at University of Virginia - he has friends at Winston and ask which surgeon I should see for a second opinion. I went and decided to take my treatments there; I haven't been sorry. They have been extremely kind and considerate and if the least thing turned up abnormal(and I have had plenty) they checked it out and everything has been just fine. The surgery for me wasn't so bad; the worst thing for me was the darn drain after removal of my lymph nodes. I am allergic to anytype of tape they have to use and by the time the drain was removed I had blisters from the tape. That really got on my nerves. My husband has been wonderful. I remember that I was told they felt sure I had cancer and it is one thing to be told that but another thing to actually hear the phrase "it was cancer". You say you are a stay at home Mom and have no close friends or family near you. SOME people that I thought were friends fell by the wayside; people that I thought were casual friends have stood with me. There were times, because we own a small business, that my husband could not take me for my treatments or the Neulastra shot the next day and friends/family took me on those occasions. I remember thinking the day my gynecologist called and told me what was suspected on my mammography films, I was just numb and scared and I remember telling God "I prayed that this isn't a mountain you would ask me to climb but for whatever reason you have chosen I needed to, I am scared and angry and just don't leave me" For me, I can tell you that without my faith, without the prayers of many, many people and my friends, family and church this would have been a much more difficult journey. Do you have neighbors close by that you talk to? I don't know your personal situation and I am not prying, but if either you or your husband have family a state or more away, they may surprise you when they hear what is going on. Keep us posted. Ask any questions you like. I will tell you and others your life is forever changed. There will keep really close tabs on you the first year and then it gradually spreads out. Much is mental attitude and you, like many of us, will decide that cancer WILL NOT rule our life. Everyone cries, everyone ask why and more than one day I cried and said "I just want my life back" I have my life but it has changed. Blessing to each and everyone who reads this post; it is lengthy. I am not familiar with the cancer center where you are going in Charlotte. I have a sister in law who did have her surgery and treatments in Charlotte (she lives here too)and she had reconstruction surgery and she later developed lymphoma but she has been free of all cancer now for 5 years!!!!!!!
Responses here have run the gamut. If I were you, I'd get a second, third, and even fourth opinion if necessary. It sounds like you're using your head, rather than reacting and taking action through fear. You are right. Unless there is a fast-growing, invasive cancer, rushing to mastectomy is not necessarily any kind of 'answer'.
What helped me most was Susun (that is SusUn) Weed's book, Breast Cancer? Breast Health! As with anything, take what you need and put aside the rest. I did. For one, the writings are empowering. For another, she offers what I consider a sound protocol and solid medical information.
As you have probably researched and read by now, in-situ cancers are not guaranteed to become invasive.
There are funds available through various entities to assist.
Be well. Be tough. Take care.
I have nothing to offer here, really, other than my "story." It helps, though, to talk about it to people who understand. I wish all of you luck and blessings in your battle with breast cancer.