My dearest friend has Her2+ cancer with advanced liver mets (she's very jaundice).
Dr. put her on Xeloda and Tykerb. She is on a 2 week on, 1 week off cycle. Her side effects have been severe. (i.e dehydration, throwing up, no appetite, mouth sores, nausea, you name it, she has it)
Her last visit to the Dr. (she goes about twice a week) just yesterday, he told her (in her words) that "everything is shrinking, and you'll have to be on this for the rest of your life. It's like having high blood pressure, you take medicine for the rest of your life to keep it controlled. This isn't something you can't live with."
Now, with that said, I'm appalled!! I've done extensive research, and with her secondary liver canver so advanced as it is, and the drug therapy she is on, I didn't see anywhere where people survive this and live for years. Not to be negative, I would LOVE for this that the Dr has said to be true. He has made MANY mistakes with my friend in the past, and personally, don't trust a word he tells her. My question is, can someone, with cancer as severe as hers is, (its in her lymphnodes and lower back as well, but, liver cancer is extensive and advanced, had cancer 1st 3 yrs ago, did a lumpectomy, and treatment for 8 months, then 4 months later it was back, then did a total mastectomy, treatment for (chemo) for 6 mo, was still on Herceptin when she became jauntice, tests revealed liver cancer)
can someone live on the combination drugs (Tykerb, Xeloda) for years? Or is her cancer too advanced, and this will only buy her a few added months...
Thanks!! Any feedback would be appreciated.
Debbie