Seeking Advice

I am 41 years old and was diagnosed with breast cancer in early June.  I am ER-, PR-, and HER2/neu- (triple negative).  My tumor is classified as Invasive Ductal Carcinoma (IDC), starting as DCIS.  The tumor is a Grade 3.  I had a lumpectomy on 6/19 and 5 lymph nodes were biopsied.  The tumor was 1.3 cm and pathology indicates the margins are clear.  One of the 5 lymph nodes came back with isolated tumor cells (.081 mm).  The other 4 were negative.  My cancer has been classified as Stage 1.  Although the docs are telling me that the one lymph node with isolated tumor cells is considered "negative" and the node doesn't need to be removed, they have given me 2 chemotherapy options.  Option 1 - TC (Taxotere/Cytoxan), 4 treatments once every 3 weeks.  Option 1 is considered standard care for lymph node negative patients.  Option 2 - Dosedense (AC + Taxol), 8 treatments once every 2 weeks.  Option 2 is the protocol for lymph node positive patients.  The docs don't seem to think I need to opt for Option 2, but tell me it's my decision.  They have also told me that the chance of recurrence with Option 1 is 12% and with Option 2, it's 10%.  I'm confused.  Part of me feels I should be as aggressive as possible in tackling the cancer and go with Option 2, but then given the small difference in recurrence %, I don't know that I should put my body through Option 2 and its associated side effects and risks.  Radiation treatments will follow chemotherapy, and next week I will have the Brach 1 and 2 genetic testing to determine my predisposition for developing other cancers.  If positive, I may consider a double masectomy and have my ovaries removed.  Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

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About the only advice (or suggestion) I can think of is: How about a second opinion from another Oncologist ?? You will always end up with "it's your decision" though. If you trust your present Oncology group then follow their recommendation but if not then get that 2nd opinion.