Thank you for the input. I emailed my oncologist with my concerns, and she is willing to talk about options of dosage after the new year, which sets my mind at ease. Your encouragement makes me really think. I was ready to just try the herceptin, but if they will adjust doses, perhaps I can tolerate the other drugs. I am happy to wait until after the new years since my surgeries are so slow to heal. Thanks again.
Thank you for your response. Yes, I am HER2+ and had a bilateral mastectomy as insurance because of my previous cancer history. The lymphnodes were clear. I am deathly afraid of the Decadron, because prednesone makes me crazy. I am worried that the treatment will lesson my quality of life, since I have had such a bad immune system since the first cancer, and wonder if it is worth it. I do plan on doing the herceptin. I will be talking to my oncologist. I have a long list of concerns. I like your idea about the lupus online forum. Thanks again.
You need to talk with your oncologists about your treatment plans and previous experiences. I had taxotere, carboplatin and herceptin almost a year ago. I just finished my last does of herceptin a week ago. I had many side effects, diahrrea, constipation, neuropathy of my hands and feet, fatigue, nausea, and so on. It was not pleasant, but I continued to work full-time throughout the treatments. I do not know how lupus will figure into the mix, you might try a lupus online forum looking for someone who has also had chemo for their insights. The herceptin was not bad for the months that I took it alone, mostly splitting fingernails and dry skin. Once you make it through the TCH chemo, things get much better pretty quickly.
What is your cancer diagnosis? I am assuming that you are Her2 positive, if you are thinking about taking Herceptin. Herceptin in studies has been proven to work better when begun with chemo, such as taxotere and carboplatin. You need to look at the best treatments for a positive long-term prognosis, talk with your doctors (oncologists and those managing your lupus) and make the best plan. Monitor your reactions carefully and keep all the doctors up to speed on how you are reacting (easier said than done when they are not in the same building but necessary.) Don't let "what-ifs" take your energy and will away. Make sure your doctors know about your previous medical history and take those facts into consideration. I have found that I am my own advocate much of the time with my doctors, and I have chosen fine physicians, but nobody looks out for me more than I do. Ask questions and work to understand all that you can about your medical issues and treatments. Being actively involved works best. PLease ask again on this original thread anything else we can help you with. I am thinking of you.
Speak with them frankly about your concerns. You have a special situation and they should think about every step and how it will affect you as a whole. If you are not working with a treatment center where you have a team of doctors from many disciplines (oncologists, endocrinologists, etc.) you should involve all your doctors by making sure they all receive all test results and are kept in the loop. I had to coordinate between two hospitals, a surgeon, two oncologists and various labs in two states, but I wanted their expertise and forced them to work together. For awhile, it was like being the child in a divorcing family where everyone sends messages through the kid and the adults would not talk to each other. After a few months, it worked better, except for the labs. They never send everything to everybody. I just get copies and fax it myself. I am thinking of you.