Mom dying

[sickbelly]

Hello my mother has had breast cancer for 2 years. It has spread to her liver, lungs, & membrane around her brain.The hospital has stopped all radiation & chemo. She has stopped taking all meds besides sleeping pills, and pain meds.They started feeding her through an IV 2 days ago. But now today she is having bowl movement accidents, and she has starting vomiting this yellow fluid several times today. Does anyone know what this fluid she is vomiting could be?

[sage009]

I know how hard this is and I just wanted to tell you I'm saying prayers for both your mother and you and family.

Mary

[sickbelly]

Thank you Mary, we do need all the prayers we can get right. >>>>hugs<<<    
Heatherose

[sickbelly]

My grandma just called, the hospital is taking my mom off of her feeding tube.It is making her belly really bloated I guess. My grandma is starting on her obituary today, so that my dad does not have to worry about it.
Heatherose

[sage009]

I’m so sorry Heatherose.

  I hope you find some peace…I know it’s really hard.  I lost my mother to breast cancer and it’s so hard to understand.   If you’re close to your family try to lean on each other, you’re all going to go through this in a different way.  I think what helps me the most is trying to make her proud still.  Don’t ever forget GOD is always right there next to you.

Mary

[sickbelly]

It is kinda funny, because over the past almost 3 years, it seems like everyday that passes my family & I all become closer & closer.

[GeezLouize75]

I lost my sister to cancer (Stage IV Rectal Cancer) May 13, 2009 and our family became much closer after dealing with the cancer and then our loss.

My prayers are with you and your family.

[sickbelly]

I am sorry for both of your loses, maybe in away thats why people die. To make us appreciate the little things in life & each other.

[GeezLouize75]

Hang in there and know that God has our lives planned before we are even born and everything that happens, in some way, is part of His plan.

I am thinking about you and your Mom.

[sickbelly]

Thank you for the prayers. The doctors took my mom off of her feeding tube or whatever it is. Last night they moved her to a place called hospice house. They sound like a wonderful place. They will keep her out of pain. And I like that. I want nothing more in the world for her to not suffer.

[sickbelly]

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/kansascity/obituary.aspx?n=terry-rose-boyle-mcbee&pid=135054213



Terry Rose Boyle McBee, 58, KCMO, passed away October 24, 2009 at K.C. Hospice House after a long battle with cancer. She was born February 1, 1951 to George and Marilyn Boyle of KCMO. She was preceded in death by her grandparents and her infant son, Johnathon. She is survived by her parents and her husband of 41 years, Bruce McBee; two sons, Anthony and Christopher McBee; daughter Heather McBee Peterman and her husband Pete; six grandchildren; one great granddaughter; three brothers, and one sister. In lieu of flowers contributions are suggested to K.C. Hospice House who made her passing so peaceful. She will be forever loved and missed. Memorial services will be held October 29, at 10 a.m., at Community of Christ Church, 12600 Byars Road, Grandview, (Arr.: Park Lawn Funeral Home, 816- 523-1234)

[sage009]

Ive been thinking about you this whole time.
I'm so very sorry, you'll be in my prayers.  

Mary

[GeezLouize75]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  At least she is no longer in any pain and has gone to meet the Lord.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  I know first hand how hard this is.

[sickbelly]

Sorry I was not trying to be rude by not replying, I have just been so busy. My father has been having me go to their house & start going through everything.Thank you for the prayers and everything.

[GeezLouize75]

Good luck and God Bless you and your family.