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Please let me know.

by spankymae, Jul 21, 2009 04:18PM
My boyfriend has cancer.
I just found out.
It hurt me so bad to know.
I couldn't stop crying.
But anyway, it is stomach & bladder cancer.
He says it's minor, that he has to keep his temper down?
And I know it can get worse.
But what are the chances of it being severely bad?
Like deadly maybe.
I love him so much & really don't want to lose him.
Will someone just please tell me what they think..?
Member Comments (2)

by spankymae, Jul 21, 2009 04:19PM
& he smokes.
so maybe the bladder cancer is from that?
but tell me what you think.
or if you think it will go away.
whatever.
please.

by Dan631, Jul 22, 2009 08:59PM
To: spankymae
Whatever happens, I hope he's getting treatment for it and that you stay with him.  
When I was being treated for lymphoma, my girlfriend was tied up with college related stuff at the time, and managed to get the nursing staff to get her a recliner to sleep in during my 6 day admission cycles. If you want to help him, just try to stay with him as much as possible, help him through this, and most importantly don't get depressed about it.  My girlfriends and I tried to keep our same sense of humor throughout my entire ordeal.

Also It doesn't matter whether or not the smoking caused it. Though there are sources that show that smoking can cause bladder cancer, knowing that won't undo the cancer, but hopefully it'll be a lesson to stay away from that ****, because it can cause a ton of other problems, many of which are cancer.
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