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Of course they need to consult a lawyer. Find an elder care attorney in the area, as this is a state law issue.
A timely protest is mandated., and an elder care attorney is recommended.
One issue is who holds the "health care proxy".
If they deem the patient incompetent a so-called "guardianship" proceeding is initiated, and at the hearing interested parties can present reasons to the judge as to what would be most appropriate. In theory, family members are selected over court-appointed guardians, however this is a political plumb.
In fairness, state agencies are often short investigators, and you can take a one minute slice out of anyone''s life and come to a conclusion that is inappropriate.
I am not sure who "Home Health Care" is.
If a home care agency feels as if a person is being abused or neglected they will report them to DHS. DHS will do an investigation and deem if the situation is bad or not. If you have power of attorney over health care, you will be able to have a say in her placement. If you are able to care for your mom and keep her safe then there will not be a problem.
I am so sorry to hear that you had this bad experience. It sounds as if you got a new home health care nurse that was not used to working in the home or in the community.
Home care nurses are expected and obligated to report any thing that they perceive as neglect or abuse. Any thing can be misconstrued in a few moments.
You may be able to handle this on your own, but it would be wise to have other family members, your mom's physician and others vouch for the proper care you are providing.
hang in there. This is never easy.
Diane