Very sorry ....... to your lost and hopefully you've a speedy recovery (both: the lost and your surgery). Time will pass.
yes time does help Tony....the grieving turns to fond memories, and there does come a time when we can stop and remember them without the tears...:(
Sorry about the physical pain too..sending you some prayers my friend, hope you soon recover from all you are enduring♥
Thank you all so very much and thank you for sharing the Rainbow Bridge... I have never heard it and it is very sweet and helps put my mind at ease. Time will heal the heart, maybe a lot of time but it will heal eventually. There have been a lot of sleepless nights... It doesn't help that I had a spinal fusion surgery just over 6 weeks ago. I am stuck at home because of pain I am still in and I have way too much time on my hands to think about it. Once again, thank you all for your support and kindness. Your friend, Tony
I'm very sorry to hear this.
Oh Tony, I am so very sorry....we all here feel the sorrow with you, we have all 'been there' too and know all to well the absolute pain and loss you both are feeling.
As Jade and that wonderful Vet already said, you did do the right thing!! We love our little furbabies so much that sometimes we keep them with us longer than whats in their best interest..we do it with love and hope that somehow they will get better, when we know in our hearts thats just not going to happen..but we can't face making that final decision.
Its a darn hard one, we look into their loving little eyes and say our goodbyes...and it just rips us apart.
RIP little Petie Boy, may your journey over that Rainbow Bridge be a gentle one....you were loved and will always be held in a special place in the hearts of the ones that loved you so very much...((♥))
Hello, Tony. I am so very sorry to read of your loss of Petey Boy and I am crying with you. That is simply one of The hardest decisions to make. You were a wonderful parent to your dear Boy.
I love the *Rainbow Bridge* so much, I want to share it in case you've never seen it. I hope it gives you some comfort in your time of grief. Again, so very sorry for your loss. *Hugs*
Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
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Thank you so much for your support and your kindness!!! Saturday, Petie Boy seemed to be doing ok and was eating and drinking well. Sunday was a whole different story. He didn't come out in the morning to eat so I knew something was wrong and I could feel it in my heart. He was under the bed sleeping and I had to get him out so he could eat. He wasn't interested in eating and he was drinking very little. As the day went on he seemed to sleep a lot. He got up a few times to drink some water but would only lick a little bit of juice from his food not actually eat it. I was laying down on the couch and I heard him meowing in the kitchen so I got up and ran over to him and he was laying on the floor. I picked him up and held him for a little bit and gave him some love. I set him down and he almost fell over but I caught him. He sat there for a few minutes and then got up and walked a few feet and fell into the kitchen cabinets. He got back up and fell again. I fell to my knees and started to cry. I immediately got on the phone and called my vet. They were closed but Petie Boy is on the surgical list so they got ahold of the Dr. and put me through to her directly. She told me to bring him into the 24 hour emergency center for pets to see what is wrong and if there is anything that can be done. I jumped into the car with Petie Boy and headed down there. When we got there they took us in right away. We spoke with the Dr. there and we explained all that was going on and he looked through all of our medical records. He was really great... he explained all of our options to us but anyway to looked at it, the out come wasn't good because he has FIP. This was the sadest and hardest part!!!! We had to make a decision that was best for Petie Boy. (I can't even write this without crying) After thinking it over for a few we decided that it was in Petie Boy's best interest to have him put to sleep so thats what we did. God bless his little heart!!! I believe in my heart that it was the best thing to do. The Dr. at the emergency center, like I said he was great...showed us the up most compassion and sincerity for our situation. He put his hand on my shoulder and said that was the right decision and said that we were great parents of Petie Boy. That helped alot, I can't even tell you. I can't thank you enough for being there when I needed someone to talk to the most. A great big hug to you. Your friend, Tony
I am so very sorry to read your words and hear little Petie Boy isn't doing well, I can 'hear' how your heart is breaking right now you both love this little guy very much.
You've done all you could and this is what we as responsible loving pet parents do but we can't always have favorable outcomes and it tears our hearts out to see them failing.
With the use of steroids comes a high risk of diabetes in cats...and drinking lots of water is a symptom of this disease, it is treatable with insulin, but with so many other problems going on sometimes treatment isn't always in their best interests.
He knows he is loved and that you've done your best to keep him healthy and happy. I do wish there had been a better outcome for you all....((((>^.^<)))) my love and hugs..♥
I thought I would update you on Petie Boy. Petie is trying to hang in there but slowly losing weight. He seems to be taking a turn for the worse the past few days. He isn't eating very good and we have tried everything. He still eats a little and drink lots of water. He seems to be out of energy even though we have been giving him GNC pets high calorie booster. He sometimes walks around meowing and looks to be nervous which is not like him. His doesn't jump up on anything anymore either. Our vet said she has no more tricks up her sleeve just try to keep an eye on him and make him as comfortable as possible. She is on vacation until September 6th so we are trying to make it until then so we can take him in to see her and at that point she can help us make a decision on what to do. It has been so hard lately. My Fiance crys every night and I feel so helpless, it is tearing me apart from the inside out. Sorry I didn't have better news and I would like to thank you all for you support and prayers. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers and I will let you know what happens if there are any changes. Thank you all once again. Tony
I am thinking/praying for Petie that he has a good recovery....what about a little minced up chicken liver to perk him up, my mom swore it was good for cats and dogs ..
I hope and believe Petie will get better and recovery soon. Try give him every things natural. I believe too much medications can cause the body mulfunction. I experienced it from myself (not my cat). One stage, I was given 6 kind of medications to take, my red blood cells also dropped pretty quick and low. My body unable to make it by myself. End up with transfusion. Dr told me have to do it once a year but I quit all the medications. Now I don't need to go for transfusion. My body can make it and it goes higher than before.
Do you feed Petie with raw meat? Red meat is full of iron so can increase his Red Blood Cell. I feed my sick cat Pika with raw lamb mince. (He likes lamb).
Once again, pray for Petie has a speedy recovery.
Thank you very much for yours prayers, your concern, your kinds words and for giving me the website. It was the best write up I have seen on FIP. Knock on wood Petie has been doing great for the past 48 hours. Eating and drinking very good and has been out, not hiding, and also has been active. I can't thank you enough once again and I will keep you up to date. Tony
hi, I am so sorry to hear the bad news you got today...poor little Petie boy. Yes you are right Petie would be feeling better and acting more himself now that the fever has started to subside. I am sending you a site with good info on coronavirus. I wish there was something more encouraging to tell you. Of course Petie is in our prayers here on MH. please continue to keep us updated...
http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body_fip.html
Thank all for your help and support. The Vet had run more tests on Petie Boy and we got the results back today. He is negative for Feline Leukemia and FIV. The Vet told me the he is positive for FIP. I guess from what I have been reading and what my Vet said that there is no cure for this and no known effective treatment. The Vet said the only thing we can do it make him as comfortable as possible and keep an eye on his symptoms. We lowered the doses of his steroids and knock on wood his fevers has have gone away. I have a hard time believing this, maybe because I am in denial. Since we got his fevers under control he seems kind of back to normal. He it eating and drinking very well, playing a little bit and back to sleeping with me. I hope the Vet is wrong and this is something not as serious as FIP only cause the Vet said there is no definitive way to test for it but everything leads up to this with symptoms, lab work and something about the coronavirus. Please pray for him to get well and I will keep you up to date on his progress. Once again PLEASE SAY A PRAYERS FOR PETIE BOY
I am so sorry to hear this i think most decent vets will give your cat treatments and let you pay in installments in fact I believe there are low cost clinics in most towns,so do some research in your area . If it were my cat I would get the treatment done ...good luck