So my step-daughter has this cat. Her Mom got very sick just after her birth (something to do with her milk ducts) so she had to be bottle fed and to top it off, the owner of the cat let her jump on tables, get in garbage, and even taught her to attack her feet. (because we have dogs, so she figured the cat needed to defend herself)
Well as the cat grew older, she became harder and harder to manage. She would do what she wanted, and if I tried to take her off the table or out of the garbage, she would attack me. She eventually got to a point where she would start attacking for no reason. My step-daughter made the problem worse by ignoring the house rules and allowing the cat onto forbidden furniture.
I didn't want to say anything, but was really relieved when my step-daughter moved to her Mom's house. Now I'm expecting my first child, and my step-daughter announced she might be moving back in, and she brought the cat over last night. I pulled my DH aside and told him though I'm happy she might be moving back in, the cat poses a big problem. First off, the cat is likely to decide to jump into the pack n play, so I will be terrified to leave the baby alone for even a second, and then I'm concerned about the cat attacking the baby.
He doesn't want to say anything, because if he did, she wouldn't move back in. I really don't know what to do.