Hello,
Just a few thoughts that may help. I work in Occupational Therapy in home health and have seen numerouse cases where the two adults in the home had health related struggles were able to get caregiver assistance thru their insurance company. It could be someone who just does simple meal prep and light house keeping during your recovery. Another thought, isprior to your surgery date, have a schedule made up with people(family/friends) who are willing to help fill in the gaps during your recovery. During this time, given the ages of your children, I am certain they will be conscious of themselves, cleaning, and pitching in more when needed. My church friends were an awesome source of help and spiritual support when I recovered from some health challenges in the past. Having the recovery time and length of will have to be a wait and see thing, as noone can foresee what may lie ahead. Best to prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Regardless, its important to take care of you so that you can get your life back and continue to be the awesome mom and wife I am sure you are. GL to you, sending prayers to you and your.
Hi Cindy and welcome to the Chiari forum.
May I ask a few questions? Why does your Dr feel you will benefit from surgery? Do you have any related conditions? What testing was done? Do you have a CSF obstruction?.....How do you typically heal?.....
Everyone is different and it depends on how you answer the above as to how your recovery might be....rushing to get back to a "normal" life may cause set backs....so it is best to take your time and allow your body to heal....outwardly you may appear to be healed in a relatively short time, but that is just the incision....inside it can take upwards of 2 yrs for the nerves to heal.....