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tantrumTemper tantrums behavior, which occurs when young children become flooded with rage when they are frustrated. Generally, the best approach to managing tantrums is to ignore the tantrum entirely and not to interact with the child at all during the tantrum. But, when children hurt themselves during tantrums, it sometimes requires that they be help tightly until they calm down, in order to prevent injury. But such restraint should occur only when necessary. As your son matures, his capacity to manage the anger that accompanies frustration will improve.