My 10 Year-old niece was put on Ritalin resentlly. My concern is that I don't think she has ADD. The reseach I,ve done says you will notice ADD in the first 7 years of life. In the last year she's been acting up. I guess my question would be what is normal 10 year-old behavior? I've only been a part of her life for 2 years, I know thats not a long time for me to notice her behavior, but, in the two years I have been around her family life has not been all that great. Her father is very emotional abusive to her, I've heard him call her a *****, sult and much more. She has seen her mom get beat up by her dad. Her own mother has said she wanted to put her in a boot camp. When I've confronted her mother about the things I see and hear about, and ask why she doesn't get out of the relationship with her husband or get help for the relationship, her respone is that she is selfish and wants him to stay and knows the kids don't like him, she just doesn't care about the girls just her needs. To me this sounds like my niece suffers from depression not ADD. Her actting up in school and her talking back and disrespect I think is cry out for someone to love her. Now because of my concern and my talks with her mom, my niece won't talk to me cause she afraid I'll call CPS and they will take her away from her mom. Something her dad has put into her head. I'm the bad one. Please help!!! Maybe if I had something to show her mom that it's normal behavior or that it's depression, then she will get the right help for her. I might be wrong too. Thank you!!