Im a new step mom to a beautiful 10 year old.
She is a very tymid, shy and scared 10 year old.
She never wants to try ANYTHING new, if we try to get her to try something that she has never done or ate she will start to cry.
(We were at a park and they had a tram. She started crying because she didnt want to ride it, even though thats the only reason we went)
She crys out of the blue and does not sleep in her own bed.
SHE HAS NO IMAGINATION! Which is super strange to me. (We were at the park one day and some kids were imaginioning they were super heros and they asked if she wanted to play and what power she wanted, she looked at them and gave them a look like "what are yaw talking about", i explained she had to pretend and the whole time she just walked around the play ground and didnt interact with any of the kids)
Its like she is a 10 year old trapped in a grown up body.
Her Mom is....one of a kind. She has 2 other kids, so she def has her hands full. But she tells things to my step daughter that frightens her, talks about her dad in front of her, makes her help out with the 2 other kids. Her mom wont let her kids interact outside of church and their grand parents and the kids are hardly ever outside on nice days!
Anyways My question is is this normal? What can we do to ensure that My step daughter has this social development that she clearly does not have? What can we do to help her be a 10 year old?