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Child Behavior (Expert Forum)
10 year olds anger
Answered by
Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development
10 year olds anger
by Mary, Oct 03, 2000 12:00AM
My 10 year old daughter is the youngest of my 3 children. She has always been shy and moody--even as an infant. In the last 2 years she has become more aggresive (aggressive) and so angry that she scares me. This past summer she went after her 16 year old sister with a knife, she threw a pair of scissors at a visiting friend, and has become TOTALLY out of control. There is no way to speak to her when she is in this "zone". EVERY single night she has complete tantrums about going to bed--we are being too loud, theres a fly in her room, the leaves are blowing too loud outside, her sister (who sleeps in her own room down the hall) is breathing too loud. It goes on and on and on. She doesn't ask us to be quiet --- she demands it and she is so angry that she cannot calm down. I am tired and frustrated and trying really hard to hold it together, but am at the end of my patience. I called this morning and made an appointment with a therapist, but appointment is a month away. Every second of my time with this child is filled with her anger, screaming, and total lack of control. The school is having problems with her also, of course. It is not just aimed at her family, but everyone that comes into contact with her. What can I do???!!??
Doctor's Answer
by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Oct 03, 2000 12:00AM
, Oct 03, 2000 12:00AM
Dear Mary,
The eventual work with the therapist will be useful in helping your daughter to regulate her anger and to improve her self control. In addition, the therapy should be helpful to you by way of collaborating around some sound approaches to the parenting issues.
However, your daughter will also very likely need to be treated with medication. It's almost certain that she displays a Mood Disorder (Depressive D/O, Bipolar D/O), and that the brain's neurotransmitters are playing an instrumental role in her volatile, reactive behavior.
The eventual work with the therapist will be useful in helping your daughter to regulate her anger and to improve her self control. In addition, the therapy should be helpful to you by way of collaborating around some sound approaches to the parenting issues.
However, your daughter will also very likely need to be treated with medication. It's almost certain that she displays a Mood Disorder (Depressive D/O, Bipolar D/O), and that the brain's neurotransmitters are playing an instrumental role in her volatile, reactive behavior.
Member Comments (1)
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