13 year old looking in the window

[Dabbledsome]

The reality is your son is bringing to life the reality you have created for him. As parents and adults we like to think that the reality we have created is perfect and those that deviate from those parameters are in the wrong or the minority. The reality is, you have brought young (and at his age, attractive) members into the family. These members are not biologically related to him and he suffers no consequence (evolutionarily speaking) from mating with them. Why would he restrict himself? You have brought filet mignon to a pork roast. The reality is that you have a problem with your son revealing the fact that you have tried to create a congruent shape out of a square and a circle. Pat your son on the back, tell him you are sorry his REAL family isn't with him b/c of you, and pay for the therapy it will take him to accept what you tell him. Other than that you are only creating long term problems he will have to deal with on his own (he will create his own solutions, like... deciding family incest is ok... extreme example, but I urge you to contradict it). YOU CREATED THIS. Don't buy an animal you can't cage.  


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[Dabbledsome]

Is supposed to be a reply... It sounds very inappropriate when viewed on its own. I don't know why it posted alone but so be it.