13 year old public masterbation

[singlemomof2]

How do I deal with a best friend of mine telling me that my son and one other boy were masturbating in front of other boys at a sleep over. Im afraid that his father will be of NO help in this situation. I just need a good start and some help-ful hints so as not to do any damage to him.

[beth978]

completly normal they will learn from each other.
dont worry its ok

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Absolutely I meant cheaper....I sure hope she is a troll, if not, we need to report her to cps.

[Matts_Mom29]

That's fantastic, I fully agree with you!!!  Masterbation as normal as it is, is not to be done in public!!  

April said everything that I would have.

[April2]

I would have a talk with your son and tell him that kind of behavior is not acceptable around others, that it's best done in private. Tell him that there's certain social rules that we all have to abide by. Tell him our private parts are meant to be kept private. He could actually get in trouble with the law if he was caught in public masturbating (I think it's called lewd behaviour or something like that). Tell him that he needs to learn to respect his body. I hope this helps.

[cheaperbythehalfdozen]

this is a normal part of boys growing up, my eldest did it regularly. It is nothing to be afraid of, but perhaps you should talk to him about it.