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Thank you Dr.K. I knew this was the inevidable, but needed some reassurance that we infact need to be ready for some long nights ahead. When she does cry and refuse sleep once the rocking has stopped, do we just continue over and over again putting her into her bed? Letting her cry it out so to speak?
Well, you are going to have to bite the bullet and stop rocking your daughter to sleep. You have unwittingly created this problem by teaching your daughter to experience the rocking as part of her bedtime routine, no different from the bath, stories, etc. When you stop the rocking, your daughter will, of course, object. And every time you defer to her you are reinforcing the behavior. So, the cure is in one sense simple, and in one sense difficult. Tell your daughter that you will no longer be rocking her to sleep. To help her adjust, you can wean her from it by rocking for a few minutes, then put her in her bed. Get ready for the reaction, and steel yourself. Identify the date on which the rocking will stop, wean her over a few days to a week, then stick by the plan.