I'm not sure if my above was written in an understandable way. Sorry. What I mean is that kids can have disorders like sensory integration disorder and not be on the spectrum. Sensory integration disorder is not in itself part of autism. However, kids with autism can have sensory symptoms or disorder as a secondary condition to their autism. They are not one and the same.
Kids have all sorts of things and some need more help than others to adjust and cope. I think the poster has followed the right path of your medical doctor helping to investigate the underlying issues.
Thankfully, through OT, my own son has overcome much of his sensory issues. Finding the right diagnosis is essential rather than a catch all. good luck
I do want to make it known that sensory integration disorder and kids that have this are not on the autistic spectrum. My son has spd and is not on the spectrum. However, many kids with autism have OVERLAPING sensory disorder as a secondary comorbid condition. They really are two separate things and having one does not mean that a child will necessarily have the other.
I would not assume this child has autism. good luck
The way you describe your son makes me think of PPD-NOS. It's a condition on the autistic spectrum where kids have some autistic symptoms but not all of them. A mild cognitive impairment and high sensory needs are often associated with PPD-NOS. These kids are the most sensory kids on the spectrum from what I have been told, they seek sensory reactions a lot. But I am not a doctor and your son could have something totally different - or nothing at all.
http://www.autismspeaks.org/what-autism/pdd-nos
Does your son go to daycare? I would encourage that experience if he is not in a daycare already. Anything that will put him in contact with his children his own age is good.
The best is to have your son evaluated by a state psychologist specialized in autistic spectrum diagnostics. You'll need a referral from a pediatrician to see this type of psychologist. I would push for this evaluation for your peace of mind, they are the best specialists to make a diagnostics or tell you your child is absolutely not on the spectrum.
Good luck!
Thanks everyone for your input. I just called the doctors office and I'm still waiting on an appointment for a ped. I'm so hoping that it's nothing and that he's just slightly delayed. If not, we will help him with anything he needs.
Hi there. Well, my son had many similarities to your son as a little guy. You mention some things that are 'classic' symptoms of sensory integration disorder which is what my son was diagnosed with. Things like not wanting to wear clothes. My son hated certain things and acted like they hurt him. Socks with seams, things around his neck like a turtle neck, certain materials, etc. Oh my goodness, an undershirt with a tag? that was definitely something that resulted in tears. (fortunately they make many seamless, tagless clothes these days which helped!)
Hair cuts, hair washing, hair brushing--- all not a good scene. Teeth brushing was not a joy either.
My son was easily overwhelmed at various things like family parties and louder places like a mall, play center, etc. And he could get overexcited around other kids and have a meltdown. Good times.
There were many other 'things'.
Preschool was very difficult for him. However, he was diagnosed at the age of 4 with sensory integration disorder (also called sensory processing disorder) and we began occupational therapy. What a life changer!! My son is now 10 and doing fantastic in the 4th grade. We learned through occupational therapy how to do things to affect his nervous system (mainly directed physical activity and deep pressure) as well as coping mechanisms and behavioral techniques. Really wonderful stuff. My son now is active in sports, has straight A's, has friends, plays an instrument, etc. He can handle himself at school just fine and is able to enjoy a party with his friends or family.
So, for us, we found the right 'root' cause.
because of what you wrote, I'd encourage you to google Sensory Processing Disorder which should pull up a web site called SPD. This is a great web site that gives information that will help you look at symptoms and ways to overcome. They do something called 'heavy work' for sensory and this is things like moving some heavy books across the room, jumping on a trampoline or mattress on the ground, etc. Kids generally think it is all great fun and that web site has many great ideas.
Let me know what you think and if it applies to your son at all. Remember, not EVERYTHING will be what you see in your son--- look for similarities. good luck
I can understand your concerns. And, as Mark, mentioned its probably worth talking to a doctor about.
I think its still worth enrolling him in JK. If its an experienced teacher, they will be able to give you a very good feeling as to how he compares with other kids. Some of his behaviors are certainly age related. And if he does need any kind of help - its a great place to start.
However, numerous of his behaviors sound very much like Sensory Processing Disorder. And that would certainly explain a number of his actions. Please check out this link for more information on SPD (or SIDs)-
http://www.sensory-processing-disorder.com/
If this does sound possible or if you have any questions, we have a site monitored by Specialmom here -
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Sensory-Integration-Disorder-SID/show/1396
Ask her any questions you have. If I remember correctly her own son was diagnosed with SPD or SID (same thing) at about this age.
Hope this helps.
I think that the only thing you can do at the moment is to discuss these behaviors with an MD. Then again, he is only 3 years of age. Quite a few of the behaviors you mentioned very well could be age related.